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Sasha Answers: Do I tell the new guy about my STI?

January 27, 2015 17:43:28 Posted at January 27, 2015 17:43:28
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Dear Sasha I really need your help.  This is going to sound very after school special but I’ve run into a moral dilemma and need your help.  Long story short I had a few quickies with this hot guy I work with and after a few months of having sex I found out that he gave me an STD.  (I’d rather not say which kind)  I’ve taken care of it but now I’m dating another guy, whom I really really like, so my question is do I tell him that I have this STD and this is where it gets bad because I’ve already slept with him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I obligated to be the client?

January 20, 2015 17:06:49 Posted at January 20, 2015 17:06:49
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Hi Sasha, My question is this: if you have a close friend or a relative who works in a fee- or commission-based industry, are you obligated to use him/her for their service? For example, if my brother is a real estate agent, am I obligated to buy a house through him? Or if a good friend is a hairstylist, am I obligated to go to her? What’s the thing to do? Suck it up for the sake of the relationship or do what you want/think is right? Thanks T ___ The adage “don't go into business with friendship” exists for good reason because there will always be two major issues at stake – friendship and money. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Stop being a jealous dick to your friend

January 19, 2015 17:22:06 Posted at January 19, 2015 17:22:06
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Hi Sasha, BFF and I have an extremely close friendship (even as BFF-ships go) and we always have. In the 10+ years of our friendship, we've also both been generally single, mostly by choice. I am still very happily single. My BFF has just gotten into a serious relationship, however, and I'm freaking out. Full Article

Sasha Answers: You are the side piece

January 19, 2015 16:36:19 Posted at January 19, 2015 16:36:19
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Dear Sasha, I don't know what to do about my best friend, E. She was not-quite dating her other best friend, A, but they are basically estranged at the moment while A tries to deal with whatever mental health issues cause her to be abusive to E. Since they made this decision to barely talk, E and I have been sleeping together. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I date another co-worker?

January 13, 2015 20:01:44 Posted at January 13, 2015 20:01:44
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Since the summer I've had a flirtation with a guy at work and he recently asked me out. He's cute, nice, right around my age, but the problem is I dated a coworker at my last job and while it wasn't a bad experience, I would just prefer not to complicate my work life.  Am I making a fool out of myself if I say yes? Or am I over thinking the situation?   ____ I'm always confused by the "should I, or shouldn't I" date my co-worker question because isn't this the best place to date!? We spend so much of our time there and there's a half-decent chance working in the same place means you have some similar interests; I mean, it seems only natural that’s where we’d pick up ass, but yes, fine, it's also known as sh-tting in your own bed. Full Article

Answers: My friend went behind my back

January 5, 2015 17:44:46 Posted at January 5, 2015 17:44:46
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Dear Sasha, I dated H for a few weeks and I liked him. Even though I thought things were going well, he suddenly wanted to be friends. I was confused and obviously disappointed, but c'est la vie. Fast forward a few weeks later where my friend R tells me that H reached out to her, supposedly, after he ended things with me, and they really feel like they have a strong connection. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My best friend’s new accent

January 5, 2015 17:05:03 Posted at January 5, 2015 17:05:03
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Dear Sasha, I don’t know if this is totally petty of me but my best friend and I were living in Australia for the last month whereby we had an amazing time together.  But something has really been annoying me. Ever since we got back my best friend has miraculously taken up an Aussie accent. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I catfished a guy

December 16, 2014 17:56:11 Posted at December 16, 2014 17:56:11
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Hi Sasha, I've done a bad thing and could really use your advice. About a month ago, I met a guy online and we kind of instantly hit it off. We talked for about a week before he started to ask if he could see more than just face shots of me. Well, I did the worst thing I've ever done and sent him pictures of some random girl I found online. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I gossip about my friends

December 15, 2014 17:27:39 Posted at December 15, 2014 17:27:39
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Hi Sasha.  I am not a *great* friend. I sometimes gossip about my friends behind their back(s). I guess I feel the need to constantly discuss people and their idiosyncrasies and how we relate...it just always comes out as sh-t-talking, when in fact I do really love these people. My husband called me out on it a few times, He thinks it's an ugly thing and he's right. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I slept with her husband and she offered me a job

December 15, 2014 17:15:29 Posted at December 15, 2014 17:15:29
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Dear Sasha, Nine years ago, I had a one night stand with a coworker. We also studied together at University, so we knew each other a while back. Then, we went on a work trip –to a Mexican beach– and ended up at a club. We both were drunk, and I was recently single. I was 31 years old and had been in a relationship for seven years (that didn't end easily), so all I wanted was to party and hook up. Full Article

Sasha Answers: One Hot Kiss

December 9, 2014 21:33:32 Posted at December 9, 2014 21:33:32
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Sasha, I f-cked up big time and I really need someone objective to tell me the truth. Background: I’ve been married for 9 years to my college sweetheart. Our relationship was always great. Best friends, same values etc. We had a full, happy life together. Until we had children. Both of our kids have severe health issues and for the past five years our marriage has crumbled under the constant stress and weight of caring for them. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He’s hot but he’s such a dick

December 8, 2014 17:17:22 Posted at December 8, 2014 17:17:22
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Hi Sasha, I've only been seeing this guy for about a month, but we started sleeping together really quickly and now we are sleeping at each other’s places two or three nights a week. That is all really fast for me, but we have really, really intense physical chemistry and kinda can't keep our hands off each other. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Do I have a big bond with my colleague?

December 8, 2014 17:01:17 Posted at December 8, 2014 17:01:17
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Need your help. There is a woman at my work who is a bit "bigger" who I think is trying to bond with me over food, which is fine. But now the things she says I'm starting to think she is like "well we're just big girls together" kind of thing. I’m freaking out because am I looked as as a “fat” person and I don't know it? Or am I completely paranoid? ____ L, let me break down my thoughts to you on this in three simple points. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Our noisy neighbours upstairs

December 1, 2014 18:52:15 Posted at December 1, 2014 18:52:15
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Dear Sasha, In June my bff and I moved into our first apartment in Toronto and we love city living! Just as clarification we live in the basement apartment in a townhouse triplex complex. In the past 5-6 months we have had no noise complaints and we have people over frequently and play music everyday but we're always conscious not to be obnoxiously loud. Full Article