Dear Sasha,My sister’s staying with my fiancé and me until… well, until we figure something else out… She moved out of our mom’s because otherwise they’d most likely kill each other, and she’s got some heavy drama with her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, so she’s been staying with us for the past couple of months… The problem is, my fiancé wants her out. Full Article

Dear Sasha, I've known this guy now for 6 months, and we have been together since the first week we met. Although I have never felt quite secure because I felt that he was emotionally distant and because the circumstances under which we met were not particularly favorable for us. For one thing he is five years younger than me (I am 27) and he is from another country. Full Article

Hey Sasha, I'm casually seeing this guy and from the first time we had sex I told him I did not want a relationship with him. He seemed ok with that. The thing is, dude is really f-cked up at the moment because he just broke up with his girlfriend (for the 100th time). We met when they were off but he kept seeing me when they were on (we've been seeing each other for a few weeks). Full Article

Hi Sasha, My boyfriend is turning 18, I’m 16, and we have been together for 5 months now, but we’ve known each other for over 2 years now, and he’s awesome, and we’re in love, but he won’t have sex with me, and wants to wait until we get married. He’s not a virgin, but I am and I used to believe in waiting till marriage and he knew that. Full Article

I've been with my bf, John*, on and off (mostly on) for 3.5 years. Here's the problem. He wants to chill out the relationship and I begrudgingly complied. While all my friends are getting married, buying houses and getting ready for kids, my bf wants to cut back to us being monogamous but expecting nothing from each other. Full Article

Hi Sasha, I’m in a bit of a tricky situation I’d like to have your thoughts on. I have feelings for my step-brother. And before you think that’s so messed up, here’s the back story: we weren’t raised together. Our parents met and got married when we were teens. He didn’t have much of a relationship with his dad, so I only met him a few times. Full Article

Hi Sasha, My roommate has been sexually assaulted by her boyfriend. She didn’t report it, and doesn’t want anyone to know. We’re actually not that close, but she decided to confide in me. I don’t know what to do, or how to help her. This is very heavy and overwhelming, and a lot for me to deal with, so I can’t even imagine what she must be going through. Full Article

Hi Sasha, First of all, am I the only guy to have ever written in?  Now on to my problem, I'm 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship. Think of me as a clean slate because I’ve never had any experience and its getting me down because I want to feel that companionship. I've never had any experience in my teen years I’ve always had girl mates but I’ve been told I always "friend zone" myself so even if I wanted it to lead somewhere it’s too late. Full Article

I don't know if you have this problem or if it's just me, but it drives me absolutely yank my own eyeballs out bat shit insane when random strangers ask me "Where are you from?", "What ARE you?"   I'm of Chinese ethnicity but raised in white town, suburbialand, no accent, and I won't even go near anything with a Coach print. Full Article

Hey Sasha, So, I met this guy a month ago and I had never believed in soul mates until I met him. We could talk for hours together, have an excessive amount of things in common, and are super super attracted to each other. Things were looking bright. Then, one day out if the blue he tells me he can't do it anymore. Full Article

Dear Sasha, My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up a few hours ago. It seems to be rather amicable even though we no longer like or love each other. We've been living together with his brother for just over a year.   During the course of the past 14 months, I have come to intensely dislike his brother. Full Article

Hi Sasha, my boyfriend found my latest journal.  He was unhappy with what he found as he read a comparison between himself and another guy (the comparison was only valid at the time I wrote it and no longer applies at all).  At first he was sorry but now he's angry and wants me to tear that particular page out of my journal. Full Article

Sasha, My kid is due in 4 days (planned & medically necessary c-section). I am not worried about the OP.  However, I wake up sometimes in the middle of the night (like,now) and my mind races - so much so that I can't easily get back to sleep. Because I'm obsessed with my mother in law. Full Article

Hi Sasha, One of my best friends is a great girl - intelligent, funny, we have so many interests and hobbies in common, and I've always been able to depend on her.  However, her dad passed away almost a year and a half ago, and as his only child, he left her everything - land, houses, money. Full Article