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Sasha Answers: I catfished a guy

December 16, 2014 17:56:11 Posted at December 16, 2014 17:56:11
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Hi Sasha, I've done a bad thing and could really use your advice. About a month ago, I met a guy online and we kind of instantly hit it off. We talked for about a week before he started to ask if he could see more than just face shots of me. Well, I did the worst thing I've ever done and sent him pictures of some random girl I found online. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I gossip about my friends

December 15, 2014 17:27:39 Posted at December 15, 2014 17:27:39
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Hi Sasha.  I am not a *great* friend. I sometimes gossip about my friends behind their back(s). I guess I feel the need to constantly discuss people and their idiosyncrasies and how we relate...it just always comes out as sh-t-talking, when in fact I do really love these people. My husband called me out on it a few times, He thinks it's an ugly thing and he's right. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I slept with her husband and she offered me a job

December 15, 2014 17:15:29 Posted at December 15, 2014 17:15:29
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Dear Sasha, Nine years ago, I had a one night stand with a coworker. We also studied together at University, so we knew each other a while back. Then, we went on a work trip –to a Mexican beach– and ended up at a club. We both were drunk, and I was recently single. I was 31 years old and had been in a relationship for seven years (that didn't end easily), so all I wanted was to party and hook up. Full Article

Sasha Answers: One Hot Kiss

December 9, 2014 21:33:32 Posted at December 9, 2014 21:33:32
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Sasha, I f-cked up big time and I really need someone objective to tell me the truth. Background: I’ve been married for 9 years to my college sweetheart. Our relationship was always great. Best friends, same values etc. We had a full, happy life together. Until we had children. Both of our kids have severe health issues and for the past five years our marriage has crumbled under the constant stress and weight of caring for them. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He’s hot but he’s such a dick

December 8, 2014 17:17:22 Posted at December 8, 2014 17:17:22
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Hi Sasha, I've only been seeing this guy for about a month, but we started sleeping together really quickly and now we are sleeping at each other’s places two or three nights a week. That is all really fast for me, but we have really, really intense physical chemistry and kinda can't keep our hands off each other. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Do I have a big bond with my colleague?

December 8, 2014 17:01:17 Posted at December 8, 2014 17:01:17
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Need your help. There is a woman at my work who is a bit "bigger" who I think is trying to bond with me over food, which is fine. But now the things she says I'm starting to think she is like "well we're just big girls together" kind of thing. I’m freaking out because am I looked as as a “fat” person and I don't know it? Or am I completely paranoid? ____ L, let me break down my thoughts to you on this in three simple points. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Our noisy neighbours upstairs

December 1, 2014 18:52:15 Posted at December 1, 2014 18:52:15
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Dear Sasha, In June my bff and I moved into our first apartment in Toronto and we love city living! Just as clarification we live in the basement apartment in a townhouse triplex complex. In the past 5-6 months we have had no noise complaints and we have people over frequently and play music everyday but we're always conscious not to be obnoxiously loud. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Leaving my boyfriend for my best friend

December 1, 2014 17:52:38 Posted at December 1, 2014 17:52:38
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I just got out of a 10 year relationship that went on 9 years longer than it should have. We were mismatched on everything and I should have left sooner but was comfortable and complacent.  Realizing I love my best friend gave me motivation to leave. I have not told my friend how I feel but I am confident he loves me too. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I get big breasts for my boyfriend?

November 24, 2014 18:34:40 Posted at November 24, 2014 18:34:40
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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You’ve heard it before, Sasha. I’m one of those many girls who looked at their bf’s computer to find what I didn’t want to find.  He’s been looking at porn, which I don’t mind, but it’s all with women who have big breasts. This hit homes because he’s always joking about how I’m flat chested, and how I look like a little girl, and how he wishes I was bigger and that as soon as he gets a raise he’s buying me ‘a set’. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My best friend’s ugly necklace gift

November 18, 2014 17:51:32 Posted at November 18, 2014 17:51:32
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Sasha, this might sound like a really stupid question but I feel v. bad and stressed out. So my best friend A, is getting married and as her maid of honor she bought me a necklace. A best friend gesture as well as a gift. So sweet but you guessed it SO ugly. I don’t know what to do because she was over at my house a few days ago and sadly asked me why I never wear it. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Is my boyfriend addicted to porn?

November 17, 2014 17:58:42 Posted at November 17, 2014 17:58:42
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years and have been living together for the past few months. Things are amazing between us and we've talked about getting married in the future. Last week, I was going through his desk to make room for some files of mine when I noticed two books stuffed behind his files. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Attracted to my colleague who has a girlfriend

November 17, 2014 17:28:30 Posted at November 17, 2014 17:28:30
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Hi Sasha, Sooooo, I've found myself in a bit of a pickle. I have a new co-worker that I felt an instant connection with. I met him at a social event for work and instantly felt comfortable, attracted all of the exciting, wonderful feelings you have when you meet a new guy that you have chemistry with. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I a “Starter Girl”?

November 11, 2014 17:24:17 Posted at November 11, 2014 17:24:17
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Hi Sasha, My boyfriend of 4.5 years and I decided to take a break. We're in our mid-20s and both have a tendency to become complacent. We love each other very much but we need to come into ourselves and just couldn't do it while dating each other. Maybe it's because it's so fresh, but I'm terrified of actually losing him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My belly-cupping friend

November 10, 2014 19:27:46 Posted at November 10, 2014 19:27:46
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Sasha, I know this is going to sound petty and that like I’m an awful friend but I can’t help but feel the same way as Lainey.  I hate belly cupping!!!  And ever since my best friend got pregnant 6 months ago that’s all she does.  In EVERY picture on her instagram!  It’s grating on my last nerve and I just want to know how to deal with it. Full Article