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Sasha Answers: Full nudity and full contact

July 15, 2014 19:08:24 Posted at July 15, 2014 19:08:24
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I just started dating R. We had a conversation about his plans for his upcoming birthday a couple days before we’d had the conversation about becoming exclusive and he told me that he and his buddies were going to a strip club. He asked me my feelings on that and on lap dances and I told him that I didn’t have a big problem with going to strip clubs every now and then but lap dances for me could be crossing a line when in a relationship. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend’s gross texts

July 14, 2014 18:37:13 Posted at July 14, 2014 18:37:13
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Hi - I have been in a serious committed relationship with my bf for the last year and a half.  It's very serious; we are talking about marriage and moving in together.  He is devoted, caring boyfriend and I have never been happier in my life.  It is a very healthy, mature relationship with no drama. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My mother-in-law is driving me crazy

July 14, 2014 17:00:44 Posted at July 14, 2014 17:00:44
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, My mother-in-law drives me nuts. She lives on the other side of the country but she comes to stay at our house about twice a year for a week each time. Ostensibly these visits are to spend time with her grandchildren, but she doesn't play with them or spend much time interacting with them. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Backstabber at my wedding

July 8, 2014 19:01:04 Posted at July 8, 2014 19:01:04
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha:  Need your help very much. I'm getting married in 4 months which I’m so excited for BUT and there’s a BIG BUT.  Last week one of my bridesmaids who has been my best friend for years told me that one of our mutual friends, who my best friend is closer to, is talking all this crap behind my back. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I Tinder?

July 7, 2014 18:27:16 Posted at July 7, 2014 18:27:16
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, So me and my long time bf finally broke up a year ago and everyone's telling me I need to get out there in the dating scene again since it's been so long and it's time to move on. So they told me to try the dating sites or this app called Tinder? I don't go out much and all my friends are married with kids so it's not like I could drag one of them to a bar so I thought those dating sites might be a good idea? But I don't want to just meet sleazy gross men who are just looking for a good time and I think that's what Tinder is all about? What do you think? Please help! S --- F-ck man, Tinder is the best invention ever. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Did my best friend break Girl Code?

July 7, 2014 17:01:52 Posted at July 7, 2014 17:01:52
Sarah Posted by Sarah

Hi Sasha –I have a bridal party of 5 girls, and many of us go back many years together. One of my girls in particular, S, I’ve known for over 10 years and we’ve been there for one another throughout good times and bad. S is single and we’ve been there for one another through several bad breakups. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My cheating colleague

June 30, 2014 14:19:00 Posted at June 30, 2014 14:19:00
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I have a “karma dilemma” I work in a law firm, being a lawyer myself. There is that lawyer, whom is having an affair with another lawyer, in our office. They are very open about it in the office. The thing is, he is newly married. His wife comes once a while to see him at the office and they act just like friends when she is around, like nothing happened. Full Article

Sasha Friend: My friend is changing

June 24, 2014 20:07:27 Posted at June 24, 2014 20:07:27
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Dear Sasha:  My friend is changing, so much so that I am starting to despise her. Last year she was 320lbs and is now 190lbs. .. and terrible conceited and a mean girl. Every conversation for the last 8 months is about this guy that wants her and this girl that gave her a dirty look. I feel like that amazing 40+ year old gal pal was replaced with Junior High airhead. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Getting back together with my addicted boyfriend

June 23, 2014 19:06:44 Posted at June 23, 2014 19:06:44
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Here’s the situation: I was dating M for almost 4 years, we met at university and we just fell so hard for each other. We took the same program, had the same goals in life together, had similar backgrounds growing up just everything fit.  After university, M’s dad offered both of us jobs up north and after a lot of consideration together, we decided to move up there for a short period of time (2-4 years) to make some money, save, and build our life together while coming back to the larger city we both loved. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The roommate wants to come on holiday

June 23, 2014 18:56:49 Posted at June 23, 2014 18:56:49
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now.  Because of work we don’t live in the same city, but we do see each other every weekend. He has a roommate and whenever I am there for the weekend, I feel like I bit of the third wheel because this guy either tags along or my boyfriend invites him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My “model-hot” best friend

June 3, 2014 17:25:15 Posted at June 3, 2014 17:25:15
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I have a sitch Sasha that I need your take on.  I just started dating this wonderful guy, we’ve been eyeing each other for a while and we finally made it official about 3 months ago.  I love him and we have such a great time together and he could be the ‘one’.  Anyway the problem. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Is my mother-in-law not sticking up for me?

June 2, 2014 16:12:27 Posted at June 2, 2014 16:12:27
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I've been married for four years and I love, love my husband. His mother is, for all intents and purposes, a fine MIL except for one thing. Backstory: his younger sister, who has a disability, hates me. She makes it clear whenever I'm around, and though my husband has tried in the past to step in, it's clear that nobody but MIL is able to influence SIL's behavior. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Does he love me as a friend…or more?

June 2, 2014 16:03:21 Posted at June 2, 2014 16:03:21
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Dear Sasha, Let me give you some back story- About three years ago, while I was in college, I was in an abusive relationship. Even though I removed myself from the physical situation I was still in a difficult emotional place. Two years ago, I reconnected with this guy I used to hook up with while on vacation. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He wants me back, should I take him back?

May 27, 2014 17:11:15 Posted at May 27, 2014 17:11:15
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Hey Sasha, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me a few weeks ago. Basically, he said he wasn't happy, that he thought he should have seen other girls before he got together with me and that he wished I would change and be a different person. I was devastated but then found myself having more energy and feeling more sure of myself than I had in a very long time. Full Article