Sasha Answers: Does my bf have a porn problem?

May 6, 2013 19:03:26 Posted at May 6, 2013 19:03:26
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I have a somewhat embarrassing question.  How much porn is too much for my boyfriend?   I've recently become obsessed with checking my boyfriend's IPad internet history and I realized that he looks at porn almost every other day.  I don't go to the links, but the link names are usually typical "college girls do anal" or something like that.  

We only have sex about once a week.  We've been together for almost 3 years and we're in our 30s and both work very long hours, so I never really thought that was too little. Do you think he's watching it too much?  H

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Dude, have you ever heard of privacy?!  I know you’re not looking for me to bag on you but come on, stop creeping and crawling all over his personal sh-t. That’s not cool.

Okay, with that out of the way let’s talk about your man’s thing with porn:

In all honestly, I don’t think you have anything to worry about.  Every guy gets off on porn.  It’s the norm and from what you’ve told me about your situation, I think it’s safe to say that it has nothing to do with you, your sex life or your relationship. Guys masturbate - it’s what they’re good at - so H, if he’s not chafing his dick off, then let him be.

Now if you weren’t having sex at all (once a week by the way, sounds like a sex marathon to me), or if he's neglecting important responsibilities in life because of it, or god forbid watching kiddie porn, then we’d have a capital P, problem...but from what I hear from you, everything seems to be on the up and up.

Look, we all have our own freaky deaky fantasies and as a couple you can either live them out separately or you can join forces and get down and dirty together. I’ll leave that decision up to you, but H, when it comes to some casual porn watching it’s nothing to get worked up over.

Thanks for writing in and keep your LIFE + STYLE questions coming my way to sasha@laineygossip.com.

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