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Sasha Answers: My boyfriend’s green card marriage

April 15, 2014 16:54:53 Posted at April 15, 2014 16:54:53
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Hi Sasha, I've been dating "x" for a good while now. We met online and then in person. It's a long distance relationship. We've been making plans for our future and want the same things. Things have been great! The problem is that he's in the usa illegally. He was married for a few years, but in the end, his ex ended up cheating on him, and he just couldn't deal with that. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I’m SO jealous

April 14, 2014 18:43:45 Posted at April 14, 2014 18:43:45
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Dear Sasha, Maybe you can talk some sense into me. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and I get extremely jealous when he even looks at another girl. Even if he looks at another girl on the internet I get so jealous, whether it is a random girl or a celebrity. I know its crazy of me but when it happens I act cold towards him and stop talking to him for a day. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I want a baby

April 14, 2014 18:35:35 Posted at April 14, 2014 18:35:35
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I’ve been trying to get pregnant for a year.  I’m in my late 30’s, I’ve done and tried everything and it makes it harder as I’m the last of my friend group to have a baby.  It’s been so hard and II feel like an outcast and as much as they’re supportive of me I can’t compete that nature is isolating me from what I want so badly. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My sister’s parenting decision

April 8, 2014 17:21:07 Posted at April 8, 2014 17:21:07
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Hi Sasha, My sister has always been into alternative medicine. It has never really been an issue and I've always just considered her a bit of a hippie.  However, she had her first child last year and recently informed me that my nephew is not vaccinated. She subscribes to the theories about vaccines causing autism (which I believe has already been completely disproven). Full Article

Sasha Answers: The guy on my mind is not the guy I’m with

April 7, 2014 16:14:55 Posted at April 7, 2014 16:14:55
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Need help.  I had a summer fling with guy A.  It ended (we lived in different states).  now i'm seeing this amazing guy B.  It’s been 5 months. Guy B is everything i've ever wanted (sweet, kind, dependable).  Looks wise, he's not who i would've normally gone out with. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Single for a while

April 7, 2014 16:08:37 Posted at April 7, 2014 16:08:37
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Hi Sasha, I ended an emotionally abusive relationship last year, It's been a few months since all of this has occurred, and I'm not back in the dating game. I don't even want to be close to it. Part of me feels this pressure to get out there and get looking because I'm in my late 20s, but I'm also just fine being single for a long while because I haven't been. Full Article

Sasha Answers: What to do about my mother

April 1, 2014 18:44:43 Posted at April 1, 2014 18:44:43
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Dear Sasha, My mother has always been dramatic. She grew up in an unsupportive, emotionally and physically abusive household until she was 19. She’s also been prone to abusive outbursts all of her life. During the first outburst I can remember, she hurled my toys at me screaming about how ungrateful I was. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My friend did that in my bathroom

March 31, 2014 19:00:12 Posted at March 31, 2014 19:00:12
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Hi Sasha, I recently threw a gathering where I invited all of my different groups of friends. One of my best girlfriends, who doesn't really know any of my other friends that well, got "really drunk" and did something I am pretty embarrassed by; she went down on a guy in the bathroom during the party and everyone knows. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The big family holiday

March 31, 2014 18:47:58 Posted at March 31, 2014 18:47:58
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So if your in laws wanted to go on a big family vacation and you don't, do you do it for the family experience? My in-laws want to go on a cruise with the entire family including 5 grandkids, we have done this twice and both times I have got motion sickness. The kind of sea sickness you can't leave the bed. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Birthday Drama

March 25, 2014 18:37:28 Posted at March 25, 2014 18:37:28
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My 35th birthday is coming up about a month from now. I don’t have much in the way of family and friends to celebrate with (we are new to the city we live in), so I haven’t made any plans yet. In fact, I hadn’t really thought about it until today. I’m not sure what I want to do this year, but the reason it was brought to my attention today is that I just received an email invitation to attend my sister's boyfriend’s surprise birthday party next month (they live in the same city as us, but have been here for a few years longer and are much more outgoing and social than my husband and me). Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I a jealous bitch?

March 24, 2014 20:09:16 Posted at March 24, 2014 20:09:16
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Hi Sasha, I have been happily married for almost 18 years – of course with all the usual ups and downs. My husband (let’s call him 'B') and I have been together for over 25 years.  B travels quite a bit for work. Prior to me, B had only one really serious girlfriend in his late teens (let’s call her 'G'). Full Article

Sasha Answers: He moved for me and is unhappy

March 24, 2014 17:39:40 Posted at March 24, 2014 17:39:40
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Dear Sasha, On paper, my life is amazing. I have an incredible job, the career I've wanted since I was 16. I own my condo, I have smart, intelligent friends and family who push me to be better, I live in a city I love and I'm madly in love. The problem: the man I'm madly in love with just moved here to be with me and he hates this city and is all around miserable. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My friend’s husband grabbed my breasts

March 19, 2014 18:29:59 Posted at March 19, 2014 18:29:59
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Dear Sasha, My friend had a party to celebrate her husband graduating from school. There was alcohol at the party and her husband went a little crazy. At one point, while he was talking to his guy friends, he pretended to grab my breasts. (He put his hands out near them and pretended like he was squeezing them. Full Article

Sasha Finds: Carpooling with my smelly colleague

March 17, 2014 17:12:05 Posted at March 17, 2014 17:12:05
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I have a problem. I recently moved to a new city to work at a new job (yay!). I am living downtown and commuting to the suburbs. It is a 45 minute drive but the job is great so I don't mind.  We hired a new employee to work on my project. He also lives downtown and commutes but doesn't have a car or drivers licence. Full Article