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Sasha Answers: Feel and Heal

May 13, 2014 16:34:14 Posted at May 13, 2014 16:34:14
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha,  At age 20 a doctor told me that there wasnt a good chance I could even have children and given my feelings that was ok with me. Fast forward to 2 years ago. I met a great guy that already has 2 kids and also told me he had a vasectomy. We began seeing each other and I became very attached to his youngest daughter and she is also attached to me. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Jealousy is a waste of time

May 12, 2014 16:30:16 Posted at May 12, 2014 16:30:16
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I've been seeing this guy for almost a year and things became serious pretty fast. I've met all his friends, most of which are girls, and I get along great with all of them except for one, his best friend (she's a girl). I guess it all started the first time we all went out for drinks. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My real fake proposal and wedding

May 6, 2014 16:05:42 Posted at May 6, 2014 16:05:42
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, Some background details: my husband and I started dating very soon after I got out of a long (4 year) relationship. I was an american living in canada on a work permit, and he is canadian. my work permit was set to run out soon, and I needed to apply for permanent residency or get the f-ck out. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend is moving in with a lesbian

May 5, 2014 15:02:30 Posted at May 5, 2014 15:02:30
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and he's ready to move out of the nest. I on the other hand, am going back for a masters for a year, and we would be doing long distance again. He wants to move in with his lesbian friend who almost texts him every day and they routinely have hangouts without me knowing. Full Article

Sasha Answers: This is not the life I wanted

May 5, 2014 14:55:00 Posted at May 5, 2014 14:55:00
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha I’ve been thinking a lot about people in my past, one person in particular.  He was married while I was in a serious relationship. I don’t think he ever thought of me romantically in any way.  He is now divorced and with someone new.  I am married now.  Thinking about him has made me realize I have so much regret about people I had serious attraction to, people I felt a connection with, people I felt fascinated by. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Be there to listen

April 29, 2014 16:14:34 Posted at April 29, 2014 16:14:34
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Sasha, My cousin recently made the difficult decision to terminate a pregnancy. We come from a hyper-conservative, very judgy family. She's young, college educated, married, but not financially ready to have a family.  However, she was upfront with her father, and this information has been spread through the family, accompanied by the super-judgy faces that only our nearest and dearest can make. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Drugs at my wedding

April 28, 2014 18:56:09 Posted at April 28, 2014 18:56:09
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I have a problem I am hoping you can help with. First, a little background. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and its a great relationship, the best I have ever had. We are planning on getting engaged soon, and now I am freaking out.  See, I live in Colorado where Marijuana is legal. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Baby-scaring my boyfriend

April 28, 2014 18:47:23 Posted at April 28, 2014 18:47:23
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I've been dating N for the past 5 years (4 of those living together).  When we first started dating, he told me that he doesn't believe in saying "I love you" or getting married or having kids.  I want all of those things but I also want him, so I accepted them. Full Article

Sasha Finds: Bridesmaid Dresses

April 24, 2014 18:00:32 Posted at April 24, 2014 18:00:32
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha!  I need your style help!  I’m getting married and need help with the bridesmaid dresses.  I have only two bridesmaids but they’re being a pain in the ass.  My color is orange, which I think is lovely.  The criteria:  solid orange! Any length.  Budget: daddy is paying but nothing more than 1200. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Getting the jackpot

April 22, 2014 19:02:44 Posted at April 22, 2014 19:02:44
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I’m in the midst of a slightly unusual money problem and would love to get your opinion on the subject.  My parents divorced very amicably when I was young and I was brought up by both of them along with my brother, dividing my time between the two of them. Both my houses were beautiful and I had a wonderful childhood and never wanted for anything although I was definitely not spoilt. Full Article

Sasha Answers: “Sh-t got real”

April 21, 2014 19:12:36 Posted at April 21, 2014 19:12:36
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha.  Here's the deal. I was dating someone (casually, non-exclusively) for about 6 months. He ended it to reunite with an ex. Not 3 months later, we started seeing each other again, nothing physical at first---but of course it became physical. So now we're having a bit of an affair, and we've been able to excuse it away (oh, we were drunk, etc), until now. Full Article