Sasha Answers Articles

Sasha Answers: Should I get a paternity test?

July 16, 2013 20:02:17 Posted at July 16, 2013 20:02:17
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Hi Sasha, I’m mixed race (1/4 African, 1/4 Brazilian and 2/4 Irish), my boyfriend is of African descent, and we have an adorable 20-month-old daughter, who just looks Caucasian with blue eyes (my paternal grandmother had blue eyes). My boyfriend and I met in high school and have been together for 7 years, but we haven’t spoken face to face in almost 11 months now. Full Article

Sasha Answers: When should I tell him about my kids?

July 15, 2013 17:27:16 Posted at July 15, 2013 17:27:16
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Hi Sasha, I am 36 and recently divorced with two children.  I am dating again and have met someone that I really like...however he’s never been married and has no children.  He’s mentioned how children terrify him and responsibility would be too daunting.  My question is when do I tell him I have children?  I don’t want to scare him away. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He’s kinkier than I am

July 9, 2013 19:17:18 Posted at July 9, 2013 19:17:18
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, My problem is really all your fault. You said the best place to meet people was online, so I went online. I had a number of lackluster dates before meeting a guy that is pretty awesome. Now the online dating site has match questions to determine our compatibility. I don't usually check people's answers but since things are going well with this guy, I decided to see what his answers to the questions were. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Crushing on my brother’s friend

July 8, 2013 18:04:39 Posted at July 8, 2013 18:04:39
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, I have a huge, enormous crush on one my brother’s friends. I’ve loved him for a little over 4 years now, but I think he thinks of me as a kid cause he kind of treats me like one sometimes. I’m 18 now (so I’m legal!!!!) and he’s 26. He’s known me pretty much my whole life, and we’d make such a cute couple! How do I get him to stop thinking of me as his best friend’s little sister, and start seeing me as a mature woman? M PS: pretty please don't tell me to wait til I get older, I really want to be with him! ___ Thou shall not pick the ripe ass of a sibling. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My “con” list

July 8, 2013 17:56:59 Posted at July 8, 2013 17:56:59
Sasha Posted by Sasha

My bf and I have been together for a little over a year. It was a strong connection from the start. He has always told me that my intelligence, drive, and independence were the things he finds most attractive. He balances out my high-strung with a more laid-back personality and he respects the fact that I am career-oriented (things that are very important to me). Full Article

Sasha Answers: My sister, our roommate

June 18, 2013 18:23:50 Posted at June 18, 2013 18:23:50
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Dear Sasha,My sister’s staying with my fiancé and me until… well, until we figure something else out… She moved out of our mom’s because otherwise they’d most likely kill each other, and she’s got some heavy drama with her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, so she’s been staying with us for the past couple of months… The problem is, my fiancé wants her out. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I the consolation prize?

June 17, 2013 18:39:01 Posted at June 17, 2013 18:39:01
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I've known this guy now for 6 months, and we have been together since the first week we met. Although I have never felt quite secure because I felt that he was emotionally distant and because the circumstances under which we met were not particularly favorable for us. For one thing he is five years younger than me (I am 27) and he is from another country. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He’s limp and I keep staying

June 17, 2013 18:25:18 Posted at June 17, 2013 18:25:18
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, I'm casually seeing this guy and from the first time we had sex I told him I did not want a relationship with him. He seemed ok with that. The thing is, dude is really f-cked up at the moment because he just broke up with his girlfriend (for the 100th time). We met when they were off but he kept seeing me when they were on (we've been seeing each other for a few weeks). Full Article

Sasha Answers: I want to lose my virginity

June 11, 2013 19:10:42 Posted at June 11, 2013 19:10:42
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Hi Sasha, My boyfriend is turning 18, I’m 16, and we have been together for 5 months now, but we’ve known each other for over 2 years now, and he’s awesome, and we’re in love, but he won’t have sex with me, and wants to wait until we get married. He’s not a virgin, but I am and I used to believe in waiting till marriage and he knew that. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Backwards in a relationship

June 10, 2013 18:19:42 Posted at June 10, 2013 18:19:42
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I've been with my bf, John*, on and off (mostly on) for 3.5 years. Here's the problem. He wants to chill out the relationship and I begrudgingly complied. While all my friends are getting married, buying houses and getting ready for kids, my bf wants to cut back to us being monogamous but expecting nothing from each other. Full Article

Sasha Answers: In love with my step-brother

June 10, 2013 18:12:53 Posted at June 10, 2013 18:12:53
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I’m in a bit of a tricky situation I’d like to have your thoughts on. I have feelings for my step-brother. And before you think that’s so messed up, here’s the back story: we weren’t raised together. Our parents met and got married when we were teens. He didn’t have much of a relationship with his dad, so I only met him a few times. Full Article