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Sasha Answers: How do I help my roommate?

June 4, 2013 19:28:13 Posted at June 4, 2013 19:28:13
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Hi Sasha, My roommate has been sexually assaulted by her boyfriend. She didn’t report it, and doesn’t want anyone to know. We’re actually not that close, but she decided to confide in me. I don’t know what to do, or how to help her. This is very heavy and overwhelming, and a lot for me to deal with, so I can’t even imagine what she must be going through. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Male, 25, straight, single

June 3, 2013 18:41:24 Posted at June 3, 2013 18:41:24
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Hi Sasha, First of all, am I the only guy to have ever written in?  Now on to my problem, I'm 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship. Think of me as a clean slate because I’ve never had any experience and its getting me down because I want to feel that companionship. I've never had any experience in my teen years I’ve always had girl mates but I’ve been told I always "friend zone" myself so even if I wanted it to lead somewhere it’s too late. Full Article

Sasha Answer: Where you from?

June 3, 2013 18:24:41 Posted at June 3, 2013 18:24:41
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I don't know if you have this problem or if it's just me, but it drives me absolutely yank my own eyeballs out bat shit insane when random strangers ask me "Where are you from?", "What ARE you?"   I'm of Chinese ethnicity but raised in white town, suburbialand, no accent, and I won't even go near anything with a Coach print. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My soul mate doesn’t want to be my soul mate

May 28, 2013 18:38:29 Posted at May 28, 2013 18:38:29
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Hey Sasha, So, I met this guy a month ago and I had never believed in soul mates until I met him. We could talk for hours together, have an excessive amount of things in common, and are super super attracted to each other. Things were looking bright. Then, one day out if the blue he tells me he can't do it anymore. Full Article

Sasha Answers: my bf and his brother kicked me out

May 27, 2013 18:56:43 Posted at May 27, 2013 18:56:43
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Dear Sasha, My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up a few hours ago. It seems to be rather amicable even though we no longer like or love each other. We've been living together with his brother for just over a year.   During the course of the past 14 months, I have come to intensely dislike his brother. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend creeped my diary

May 27, 2013 18:50:46 Posted at May 27, 2013 18:50:46
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, my boyfriend found my latest journal.  He was unhappy with what he found as he read a comparison between himself and another guy (the comparison was only valid at the time I wrote it and no longer applies at all).  At first he was sorry but now he's angry and wants me to tear that particular page out of my journal. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Will my mother-in-law steal my baby?

May 21, 2013 18:07:02 Posted at May 21, 2013 18:07:02
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Sasha, My kid is due in 4 days (planned & medically necessary c-section). I am not worried about the OP.  However, I wake up sometimes in the middle of the night (like,now) and my mind races - so much so that I can't easily get back to sleep. Because I'm obsessed with my mother in law. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My money-bragger friend

May 14, 2013 18:30:06 Posted at May 14, 2013 18:30:06
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, One of my best friends is a great girl - intelligent, funny, we have so many interests and hobbies in common, and I've always been able to depend on her.  However, her dad passed away almost a year and a half ago, and as his only child, he left her everything - land, houses, money. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Is this guy a liar?

May 13, 2013 18:26:35 Posted at May 13, 2013 18:26:35
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Hi Sasha, I'm the person who swore she'd never do online dating, but at 22 and having never dated anyone, I decided to swallow my pride and go for it. This Sunday I had a great first date with a guy who was very sweet, intelligent, and with whom I had no shortage of mutual interests. We sustained conversation for about four hours, and the time went by in the blink of an eye. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My best friend’s grabby boyfriend

May 13, 2013 18:19:05 Posted at May 13, 2013 18:19:05
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Dear Sasha.  Here’s the story:  a few friends and I decided to go to happy hours after class/work. My best friend (and roommate) came with her very serious boyfriend. Part of our group called it an early night (including both my best friend and my boyfriend), so me, her boyfriend, and a couple other friends decided to stay. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How to deal with Kanye West’s girlfriend

May 7, 2013 19:07:05 Posted at May 7, 2013 19:07:05
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Hi Sasha, I can't stand my boyfriend’s friend’s girlfriend.  We have a really close friend group and this girl is horrible, annoying, disrespectful and we’re all pretty convinced she’s just with him because he has money.  My boyfriend though doesn’t really care and is still happy to hang out with them but I told him more than once that I do not like how she acts but what can I do? S --- Well, now you know how Beyoncé must feel about Kim Kardashian. Full Article