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Sasha Answers: Wedding or Holiday?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 19, 2013 18:36:25 August 19, 2013 18:36:25

Dear Sasha, My husband and I have a bit of a dilemma we were hoping you could help us sort out.  A bit of a backstory first...we've been together for 3 years and married for just over one.  Since we met we have gone through multiple family issues, such as the death of grandparents, and cancer. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My BFF’s dad hit on me

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 30, 2013 18:04:41 July 30, 2013 18:04:41

Dear Sasha, My best friend broke up with me because her dad tried to make a move on me. It all started about six months ago, when her dad started texting me. The content was relatively innocent, albeit a bit out of the blue, but the ending felt kind of off. The only times he ever called me before was about his daughter, but then he started texting me things like “hello, how are you doing today? Sweet kisses” or “I am off to bed now, I wish you a good night. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The decision I made

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 23, 2013 18:30:04 July 23, 2013 18:30:04

Dear Sasha, I’m 17, a freshman in college, and got an abortion two weeks ago. It was my first time, but I’m not even sure I’d be able to recognize the boy if I were to run into him… the only time I decide to let loose, not overthink things and be a “normal” kid my age, I get pregnant… I didn’t really wanted to get the abortion, but there was no way I could tell my parents. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My corny boyfriend

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 22, 2013 18:23:11 July 22, 2013 18:23:11

Hi Sasha, I'm in my early 30's and have had crap luck in the love department until recently.  I've been dating someone for a little over 3 months who has almost everything I've been looking for.  I originally friend-zoned him because he came on a little strong, but once he relaxed a bit I found him to be supportive, kind, romantic, and he has honesty and integrity in spades. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He doesn’t love me

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 22, 2013 18:14:18 July 22, 2013 18:14:18

Hi Sasha, My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 10 months. Recently, I’ve been feeling like he is not feeling the relationship any more (I’m always the one messaging him, when we hang out he’ll bust out his laptop and start surfing reddit, or start playing call of duty, etc. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I get a paternity test?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 16, 2013 20:02:17 July 16, 2013 20:02:17

Hi Sasha, I’m mixed race (1/4 African, 1/4 Brazilian and 2/4 Irish), my boyfriend is of African descent, and we have an adorable 20-month-old daughter, who just looks Caucasian with blue eyes (my paternal grandmother had blue eyes). My boyfriend and I met in high school and have been together for 7 years, but we haven’t spoken face to face in almost 11 months now. Full Article

Sasha Answers: When should I tell him about my kids?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 15, 2013 17:27:16 July 15, 2013 17:27:16

Hi Sasha, I am 36 and recently divorced with two children.  I am dating again and have met someone that I really like...however he’s never been married and has no children.  He’s mentioned how children terrify him and responsibility would be too daunting.  My question is when do I tell him I have children?  I don’t want to scare him away. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He’s kinkier than I am

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 9, 2013 19:17:18 July 9, 2013 19:17:18

Hi Sasha, My problem is really all your fault. You said the best place to meet people was online, so I went online. I had a number of lackluster dates before meeting a guy that is pretty awesome. Now the online dating site has match questions to determine our compatibility. I don't usually check people's answers but since things are going well with this guy, I decided to see what his answers to the questions were. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Crushing on my brother’s friend

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 8, 2013 18:04:39 July 8, 2013 18:04:39

Hey Sasha, I have a huge, enormous crush on one my brother’s friends. I’ve loved him for a little over 4 years now, but I think he thinks of me as a kid cause he kind of treats me like one sometimes. I’m 18 now (so I’m legal!!!!) and he’s 26. He’s known me pretty much my whole life, and we’d make such a cute couple! How do I get him to stop thinking of me as his best friend’s little sister, and start seeing me as a mature woman? M PS: pretty please don't tell me to wait til I get older, I really want to be with him! ___ Thou shall not pick the ripe ass of a sibling. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My “con” list

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 8, 2013 17:56:59 July 8, 2013 17:56:59

My bf and I have been together for a little over a year. It was a strong connection from the start. He has always told me that my intelligence, drive, and independence were the things he finds most attractive. He balances out my high-strung with a more laid-back personality and he respects the fact that I am career-oriented (things that are very important to me). Full Article

Sasha Answers: My sister, our roommate

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 18, 2013 18:23:50 June 18, 2013 18:23:50

Dear Sasha,My sister’s staying with my fiancé and me until… well, until we figure something else out… She moved out of our mom’s because otherwise they’d most likely kill each other, and she’s got some heavy drama with her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, so she’s been staying with us for the past couple of months… The problem is, my fiancé wants her out. Full Article