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Sasha Answers: My sister, our roommate

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 18, 2013 18:23:50 June 18, 2013 18:23:50

Dear Sasha,My sister’s staying with my fiancé and me until… well, until we figure something else out… She moved out of our mom’s because otherwise they’d most likely kill each other, and she’s got some heavy drama with her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, so she’s been staying with us for the past couple of months… The problem is, my fiancé wants her out. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I the consolation prize?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 17, 2013 18:39:01 June 17, 2013 18:39:01

Dear Sasha, I've known this guy now for 6 months, and we have been together since the first week we met. Although I have never felt quite secure because I felt that he was emotionally distant and because the circumstances under which we met were not particularly favorable for us. For one thing he is five years younger than me (I am 27) and he is from another country. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He’s limp and I keep staying

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 17, 2013 18:25:18 June 17, 2013 18:25:18

Hey Sasha, I'm casually seeing this guy and from the first time we had sex I told him I did not want a relationship with him. He seemed ok with that. The thing is, dude is really f-cked up at the moment because he just broke up with his girlfriend (for the 100th time). We met when they were off but he kept seeing me when they were on (we've been seeing each other for a few weeks). Full Article

Sasha Answers: I want to lose my virginity

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 11, 2013 19:10:42 June 11, 2013 19:10:42

Hi Sasha, My boyfriend is turning 18, I’m 16, and we have been together for 5 months now, but we’ve known each other for over 2 years now, and he’s awesome, and we’re in love, but he won’t have sex with me, and wants to wait until we get married. He’s not a virgin, but I am and I used to believe in waiting till marriage and he knew that. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Backwards in a relationship

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 10, 2013 18:19:42 June 10, 2013 18:19:42

I've been with my bf, John*, on and off (mostly on) for 3.5 years. Here's the problem. He wants to chill out the relationship and I begrudgingly complied. While all my friends are getting married, buying houses and getting ready for kids, my bf wants to cut back to us being monogamous but expecting nothing from each other. Full Article

Sasha Answers: In love with my step-brother

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 10, 2013 18:12:53 June 10, 2013 18:12:53

Hi Sasha, I’m in a bit of a tricky situation I’d like to have your thoughts on. I have feelings for my step-brother. And before you think that’s so messed up, here’s the back story: we weren’t raised together. Our parents met and got married when we were teens. He didn’t have much of a relationship with his dad, so I only met him a few times. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How do I help my roommate?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 4, 2013 19:28:13 June 4, 2013 19:28:13

Hi Sasha, My roommate has been sexually assaulted by her boyfriend. She didn’t report it, and doesn’t want anyone to know. We’re actually not that close, but she decided to confide in me. I don’t know what to do, or how to help her. This is very heavy and overwhelming, and a lot for me to deal with, so I can’t even imagine what she must be going through. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Male, 25, straight, single

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 3, 2013 18:41:24 June 3, 2013 18:41:24

Hi Sasha, First of all, am I the only guy to have ever written in?  Now on to my problem, I'm 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship. Think of me as a clean slate because I’ve never had any experience and its getting me down because I want to feel that companionship. I've never had any experience in my teen years I’ve always had girl mates but I’ve been told I always "friend zone" myself so even if I wanted it to lead somewhere it’s too late. Full Article

Sasha Answer: Where you from?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 3, 2013 18:24:41 June 3, 2013 18:24:41

I don't know if you have this problem or if it's just me, but it drives me absolutely yank my own eyeballs out bat shit insane when random strangers ask me "Where are you from?", "What ARE you?"   I'm of Chinese ethnicity but raised in white town, suburbialand, no accent, and I won't even go near anything with a Coach print. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My soul mate doesn’t want to be my soul mate

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 28, 2013 18:38:29 May 28, 2013 18:38:29

Hey Sasha, So, I met this guy a month ago and I had never believed in soul mates until I met him. We could talk for hours together, have an excessive amount of things in common, and are super super attracted to each other. Things were looking bright. Then, one day out if the blue he tells me he can't do it anymore. Full Article

Sasha Answers: my bf and his brother kicked me out

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 27, 2013 18:56:43 May 27, 2013 18:56:43

Dear Sasha, My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up a few hours ago. It seems to be rather amicable even though we no longer like or love each other. We've been living together with his brother for just over a year.   During the course of the past 14 months, I have come to intensely dislike his brother. Full Article