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Sasha Answers: Should I spot my dad?

May 6, 2013 18:54:12 Posted at May 6, 2013 18:54:12
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I'm looking for an impartial opinion regarding how to deal with family, money and when to give tough love. I'm a graduate student (self-funded/scholarships/generous maternal grandparents) so money is a little tight and I'm counting down the next four months when I'll be able to really look for a full-time job. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Choosing sides in a divorce

April 30, 2013 18:38:27 Posted at April 30, 2013 18:38:27
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Hi Sasha, my parents are getting divorced. It's actually my mom and stepdad, after 16 years of marriage, and as if it wasn’t painful enough, things are getting very ugly between them. My mom wants my brother and I to cut him out of our lives, my brother agreed. He never really liked our stepdad to begin with. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My mom won’t let me get a tattoo

April 29, 2013 18:17:15 Posted at April 29, 2013 18:17:15
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Dear Sasha, I’m 16, and my mom won’t let me get a tattoo. I’m responsible, and I’ve thought about it for a very long time! I really want to get one, plus it’s a short French quote that means a lot to me. I want to get it on the back of my neck, it’ll only be visible if I want it to be. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I cut myself

April 29, 2013 18:05:56 Posted at April 29, 2013 18:05:56
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I cut myself. Nobody around me knows. I've started a few years ago in high school, and haven’t been able to stop since. I am now a sophomore in college, living by myself, which makes it harder to stop. I’ve tried many times to tell my parents and close ones, but I’m too ashamed. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I spot my BFF?

April 23, 2013 17:38:37 Posted at April 23, 2013 17:38:37
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey sasha! My really good friend is going through a tough time.  She got let go of her job 6 months ago and she’s still having a hard time getting back on her feet.  She’s trying but not making enough money to always pay her rent.  I’m not rolling in it but I could spot her some cash. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I want more but he doesn’t

April 22, 2013 18:56:06 Posted at April 22, 2013 18:56:06
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, So I’m dating this guy, let’s call him B, who won’t commit. This is actually the second time we’re dating. We started dating a few months ago for a couple months. He told me he really liked me but wasn’t looking for anything serious, so after two months, I could no longer stand him seeing other girls, so I gave him an ultimatum, didn’t work, and we broke up. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My jealous insecure boyfriend

April 22, 2013 18:49:51 Posted at April 22, 2013 18:49:51
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I’m in love with my boyfriend, but he is very jealous and insecure. We’ve been going out for almost a year now, and I’ve never cheated on him, or even been attracted to anyone else but him. At first I honestly thought it was cute, but now it’s just getting ridiculous. He doesn't like me hanging out with my guy friends, and he’s jealous of my best friend, who is gay by the way. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I date my TA?

April 16, 2013 18:08:00 Posted at April 16, 2013 18:08:00
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, My English teacher’s assistant asked me out. I’m 22, and he’s 28, so it’s not that weird. We’ve started hanging out together off campus because we have a few common friends. I like him. A lot. He’s really smart, charming, and he has a killer British accent. Full Article

Sasha Answers: BDSM -- it is okay?

April 15, 2013 20:12:05 Posted at April 15, 2013 20:12:05
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, I am a single mom who has not dated seriously in years. And I don't really have a lot of close friendships either. Somehow, I'm now involved with someone in my industry (we are working on a common project) in a bdsm relationship. It started out as a fun drunken hookup, but has definitely got more, uh interesting since then. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend is having a baby with another girl

April 15, 2013 19:33:10 Posted at April 15, 2013 19:33:10
Sasha Posted by Sasha

So I need some help with making a decision. I met a guy at the end of last year, he is now my boyfriend and after only two months of dating, we feel pretty strongly about each other. The problem? He's having a baby with another girl. In his first week of university he had a few one night stands and it just so happens that one of these girls got pregnant. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Did my horniness scare him off?

April 9, 2013 18:45:18 Posted at April 9, 2013 18:45:18
Sasha Posted by Sasha

After a breakup of a long term relationship, I took some time to myself to recover. Nearly three years of celibacy, to be exact.  Then I met a guy who I found really physically attractive and my sex drive just seemed to take off. I was almost sexually harassing this dude every time I met him, which makes things even worse looking back. Full Article