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Sasha Answers: BFFs who serve and protect

March 11, 2013 18:38:30 Posted at March 11, 2013 18:38:30
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, So, this one is a bit of a cluster f-ck. My best friend has been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now-- since high school. They don't live together. My friend is lovely, and always has been lovely. I've got a long-term partner as well, and we do a lot of double-date action together. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I tell my best friend I love her?

March 11, 2013 18:29:59 Posted at March 11, 2013 18:29:59
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I think I’m in love with my best friend. The problem is, she’s straight. I think I’m gay. I’ve never been with a girl before, and I’ve found other girls drop dead gorgeous, but never really wanted to be intimate with any of them. I have a boyfriend, but it’s new, and we’re not that serious about each other. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I his girlfriend or not?

March 5, 2013 20:05:30 Posted at March 5, 2013 20:05:30
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, I'm a graduate student who recently got out of a long distance relationship with a younger guy (he's 19, I'm 23). His deal is that he doesn't want commitment, and he wants to date other girls, but he loves me and maybe one day it'll work out again. When I came home for Christmas, I was hesitant about hanging out, but he bought me a Christmas present (my favourite Chanel perfume), and as we hung out more and more he took me on more "dates" i. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Weight loss/Small dick

March 4, 2013 19:11:06 Posted at March 4, 2013 19:11:06
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha:  I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He's a great guy; hard worker, loyal, a great cook and he's hot. We have our differences, obviously, and I am way more expressive than he is: I'm constantly telling him low great he looks, I surprise him with gifts and basically show my appreciation for him in many different ways. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I f-cked my boss

March 4, 2013 18:50:25 Posted at March 4, 2013 18:50:25
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, My boss and I used to flirt together at work. But it’s always been over the table and really innocent. He’s very attractive, but he’s married, with a second kid on the way. A couple months ago, during one fairly drunken work party… ok, we weren’t wasted, but were both very tipsy, we ended up having sex. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Dude is hotter than I am

February 26, 2013 20:18:40 Posted at February 26, 2013 20:18:40
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Jason Merritt/ Alberto E. Rodriguez/ Getty

Dear Sasha, I’ve started doing the online dating thing a couple of months ago, and I’ve been talking to one guy in particular for a few weeks before we decided to meet in person.  He looked really handsome on his profile pictures, but I figured most everyone put up their best pics online, so without being hideous, he probably wouldn’t be as handsome when we meet. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend wants a threesome

February 19, 2013 19:10:00 Posted at February 19, 2013 19:10:00
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years and he’s been pushing for a few months now, for us to have a threesome. And if was I to agree to it, I’d be the one picking the other girl. That, to him, should be an incentive for me to agree to the threesome, but the thing is, I have absolutely no interest in this. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Comparing myself to the ex

February 18, 2013 20:06:32 Posted at February 18, 2013 20:06:32
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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WENN

Dear Sasha I can’t help comparing myself to my partner’s ex (and mother to his child. I know all the rhetoric ie/  “everyone has their own beauty...focus on your own life” etc., etc but it just doesn’t sink in and I find myself scouring through FB for pics and asking unsuspecting friends and people passing  ”am I prettier?” I also cringe when I learn of some new and great thing she is doing. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The other woman is his phone

February 18, 2013 20:00:00 Posted at February 18, 2013 20:00:00
Sasha Posted by Sasha
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Splash

Hi Sasha, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year.  He is ALWAYS on his phone. Not talking on it – just looking at it (texting, instagram, facebook, ebay, craigslist, motorcycle blogs….).  I trust him and don’t think he’s physically cheating on me (maybe he’s sending flirty messages to old flames though – who knows!?) – but I get really jealous of all the time he spends on that damn phone! I have told him this, but it hasn’t changed. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My cheap tipping friends

February 12, 2013 19:57:20 Posted at February 12, 2013 19:57:20
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, I'm pretty much a stereotypical Chinese person with a close group of stereotypical Chinese friends.  However, one stereotype that I very much want to stay away from is the cheapness when it comes to tipping at restaurants. I have a couple of friends who insist that the appropriate amount to tip a server is 10% before tax. Full Article

Sasha Answers: When Will He Say I Love You?

February 11, 2013 19:17:17 Posted at February 11, 2013 19:17:17
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, My boyfriend & I are gearing up to celebrate our 1st anniversary soon, but we've yet to say I love you to each other. I don't want to be the one to say it first (please don't make me;), but I'm beginning to wonder if he'll ever say it. He's an affectionate, caring person, and has made several references to growing old together, but for whatever reason he can't seem to utter those 3 little words. Full Article