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Sasha Answers: I f-cked my boss

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 4, 2013 18:50:25 March 4, 2013 18:50:25

Dear Sasha, My boss and I used to flirt together at work. But it’s always been over the table and really innocent. He’s very attractive, but he’s married, with a second kid on the way. A couple months ago, during one fairly drunken work party… ok, we weren’t wasted, but were both very tipsy, we ended up having sex. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Dude is hotter than I am

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 26, 2013 20:18:40 February 26, 2013 20:18:40
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Dear Sasha, I’ve started doing the online dating thing a couple of months ago, and I’ve been talking to one guy in particular for a few weeks before we decided to meet in person.  He looked really handsome on his profile pictures, but I figured most everyone put up their best pics online, so without being hideous, he probably wouldn’t be as handsome when we meet. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend wants a threesome

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 19, 2013 19:10:00 February 19, 2013 19:10:00

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years and he’s been pushing for a few months now, for us to have a threesome. And if was I to agree to it, I’d be the one picking the other girl. That, to him, should be an incentive for me to agree to the threesome, but the thing is, I have absolutely no interest in this. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Comparing myself to the ex

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 18, 2013 20:06:32 February 18, 2013 20:06:32
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Dear Sasha I can’t help comparing myself to my partner’s ex (and mother to his child. I know all the rhetoric ie/  “everyone has their own beauty...focus on your own life” etc., etc but it just doesn’t sink in and I find myself scouring through FB for pics and asking unsuspecting friends and people passing  ”am I prettier?” I also cringe when I learn of some new and great thing she is doing. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The other woman is his phone

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 18, 2013 20:00:00 February 18, 2013 20:00:00
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Hi Sasha, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year.  He is ALWAYS on his phone. Not talking on it – just looking at it (texting, instagram, facebook, ebay, craigslist, motorcycle blogs….).  I trust him and don’t think he’s physically cheating on me (maybe he’s sending flirty messages to old flames though – who knows!?) – but I get really jealous of all the time he spends on that damn phone! I have told him this, but it hasn’t changed. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My cheap tipping friends

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 12, 2013 19:57:20 February 12, 2013 19:57:20

Hey Sasha, I'm pretty much a stereotypical Chinese person with a close group of stereotypical Chinese friends.  However, one stereotype that I very much want to stay away from is the cheapness when it comes to tipping at restaurants. I have a couple of friends who insist that the appropriate amount to tip a server is 10% before tax. Full Article

Sasha Answers: When Will He Say I Love You?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 11, 2013 19:17:17 February 11, 2013 19:17:17

Hi Sasha, My boyfriend & I are gearing up to celebrate our 1st anniversary soon, but we've yet to say I love you to each other. I don't want to be the one to say it first (please don't make me;), but I'm beginning to wonder if he'll ever say it. He's an affectionate, caring person, and has made several references to growing old together, but for whatever reason he can't seem to utter those 3 little words. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Choosing a considerate wedding date

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 11, 2013 19:05:43 February 11, 2013 19:05:43

Hi Sasha, my husband and I moved to another country for work and decided to elope while away. We've told our family and a small number of our friends. We are planning a more formal celebration when we visit Canada in 2014 (I know it seems like a long time from now). One of my closest friends became engaged recently and she informally told friends that her wedding will be this summer. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I’m 26 and he’s 19

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 5, 2013 18:25:15 February 5, 2013 18:25:15

Hi Sasha, So I'm 26 and I started secretly dating a 19 year old boy. We were friends before things got sexual and originally it started out as fun. He's so sweet and ambitious and funny and we have incredible sex. The thing is he recently told me he was in love with me and wanted to make things official. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Wedding planning after a death in the family

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 4, 2013 17:28:15 February 4, 2013 17:28:15

Hi Sasha, My boyfriend and I recently got engaged. This is a second wedding for both of us and we are planning something small and simple. The issue? Two days before he proposed his mother passed away unexpectedly. He is an only child whose father and step-father both died years ago. Needless to say, he and his mother were VERY close. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Another man’s baby

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 4, 2013 17:20:11 February 4, 2013 17:20:11

Hi Sasha, I've known my boyfriend (T) for about 10 years now and been together on and off for about 4 years. We broke up again about 5 months ago and I had a one night stand with a friend of my best friend’s (let’s call him X), while I was broken up with my boyfriend. T and I got back together about 3 weeks ago, and I found out a couple of days ago that I was about two months pregnant, and I’m feeling completely gutted… I’m keeping the baby, but I’m very anxious to tell my boyfriend about it… We’ve always had plans to have a family, but that was supposed to happen later on, not when we’re both barely out of uni, and I’m still trying to figure out my career path… I haven’t told him about my one night stand, especially because he’s met X before, and doesn’t really like him, and things are now super weird between X and I… We’ve both been pretending nothing happened, and I haven’t told my best friend that I’ve slept with X either because she can be rather judgemental sometimes… I don’t plan on telling X I’m pregnant either because really, I don’t know him very well, but he’s a real mess, who can be a real jerk, and he’s far from being father-material… I’m afraid to tell my boyfriend because even though we were broken up when that happened, I still feel like I betrayed him… I feel like I’m running out of time and options… the “best” I’ve come up with is to wait a few weeks, and then tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant, so that there won’t be any questions as to who’s the father… I can’t think of any other options… and I don’t want to lose him… ___ You can keep secret all the hopes and dreams you want, but sometimes life doesn’t unfold the way you want it to and A, this is one of those times for you. Full Article