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Sasha Answers: 23 year old virgin

January 21, 2013 19:24:45 Posted at January 21, 2013 19:24:45
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I’m 23 and a virgin. I’ve been casually seeing this guy (he’s 27) for about two months now. He’s really sweet, but apart from movies and tv shows, we don’t have all that much in common. We get along great and we never run out of things to talk about, and yet we haven’t really opened up about real personal stuff (I haven’t told him I’m still a virgin) and I only know his likes, dislikes and hobbies, not much about his family or friends, or childhood, or anything like that, and the same goes for him about me. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Petty over wedding dates

January 21, 2013 19:17:25 Posted at January 21, 2013 19:17:25
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha, I have been with my fiancé for a couple of years before we got engaged, which was back in the spring of 2011. We set the date almost immediately and it was no secret to anyone. We booked our venues, made a website, etc. almost immediately and had save the dates mailed out in late 2012. Full Article

Sasha Answers: All he wants is sex

January 15, 2013 19:55:14 Posted at January 15, 2013 19:55:14
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I just started dating a guy and all he wants is sex. Whenever I try to get personal with him, he would shut me up( like he doesn't want me to get closer to him) and i am kinda getting sick of that, he tells me he loves me but I aint sure about that and I am kinda thinking of breaking up with him but I love him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Desperate & Doomed

January 15, 2013 19:47:04 Posted at January 15, 2013 19:47:04
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I've done despicable things, hurt a ton of people, trashed my life and painted myself into a corner. Three years ago, I met a wonderful man. We lived a perfect life, at least it seemed that way. I guess some things weren't right, but I couldn't put my finger on them. I shrugged it off and continued down the road of wedding planning, etc. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I nag?

January 8, 2013 19:26:26 Posted at January 8, 2013 19:26:26
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, My guy and I are recently married but have been living together for years.  He was super busy with school for a long time so I shouldered the majority (all) the housework/life planning while working so he could get his education.  Now, he's done and also working full time.  The problem is I'm still doing all the housework/life planning. Full Article

Sasha Answers: She’s having a baby but I’m not

January 7, 2013 19:48:11 Posted at January 7, 2013 19:48:11
Sasha Posted by Sasha

My husband's best friend (M) is dating a girl (R) who I have always been less than fond of.  I've tried to get along with her, but she's so abrasive and opinionated that I find it difficult to find anything redeeming in her.  Her and M have a terrible relationship - they have broken up SO many times over the few years they've been together and she treats M like total garbage. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Can I change my nickname?

January 7, 2013 19:34:41 Posted at January 7, 2013 19:34:41
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I'm an adult professional and my nickname is kind of childish.  I didn't choose it, and it just keeps self-perpetuating.  I would like a nickname that isn't so childish sounding.  Can I do this? I'm worried that it's a touch ridiculous to tell everybody to call you something different at this stage in the game (I'm 31). Full Article

Sasha Answers: A Book For My Niece

December 18, 2012 19:05:35 Posted at December 18, 2012 19:05:35
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I have a 12-year-old niece whom I adore: very bright, totally with-it gal. And a big reader. Here's the issue: I just bought her the two first volumes in a series (here in Quebec) of 14. The series is called "Namasté's blog", about a 13-year-old who shares her life problems (:o)) on a blog: parents, school friends, boys. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Holiday gathering guest list

December 17, 2012 18:38:25 Posted at December 17, 2012 18:38:25
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi- I am trying to figure out if it’s too rude to exclude certain guests from my Xmas family gathering. My brother is divorced and has a young daughter.  He and I are not that close and he can be dry and sort of obnoxious at times.  He has a girlfriend.  She is nice enough. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Joint Accounts

December 17, 2012 18:24:11 Posted at December 17, 2012 18:24:11
Sasha Posted by Sasha

So my guy and I have been married a little over a year now. I'm still confused as to how we go about merging, or not merging, our finances? We each have separate accounts and we split bills 50/50. These expenses have increased heavily after buying a home and wedding spending. I am a junior in my job and make far less than him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Friend Envy

December 11, 2012 18:27:33 Posted at December 11, 2012 18:27:33
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I'm in a tricky situation. My friend is a great girl, pretty, funny, VERY bright. We're finishing university this year and I was lucky enough to get my dream graduate job at the first place I applied and interviewed for. This all happened about three months ago. My friend, however, is yet to get a graduate position, despite having applied to over 20 places. Full Article