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Sasha Answers: Can I be friends with my friend’s ex?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 19, 2013 19:11:54 March 19, 2013 19:11:54

Hi, Sasha Here's the thing: one of my best friends started dating a guy and, though I had met him before, we became friends because of his relationship with her. Thing is, he recently broke up with her. Not in the most appropriate way, but I consider that it's not my business at all. He has become a very good friend to me, one of the best, but the problem is that she doesn't want me near him at all. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The Difficult Friend at my wedding

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 18, 2013 17:38:08 March 18, 2013 17:38:08

Hi Sasha, I'm getting married this summer! Very exciting! Here's the problem - I'm blessed with many close and wonderful female friends, but if I asked all the friends I wanted to ask, the bridal party would be bigger than the guests. My fiance will have only a best man, so for symmetry I'd like to ask my dearest friend who is coming from overseas to be my maid of honour. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The Work Crush & the Consolation Prize

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 18, 2013 17:19:20 March 18, 2013 17:19:20
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So I have this crazy crush on a guy at work - like can't stop thinking about him, feel a real connection kind of crush. There are several issues with this however: 1) I have a boyfriend - a longterm, live-in, have talked about house buying/marriage/babies one day in-the-not-so-distant-future boyfriend. Full Article

Sasha Answers: STI and race issues with my ex

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 12, 2013 17:20:25 March 12, 2013 17:20:25

Dear Sasha, Here's my problem, I am helplessly in love with my ex-boyfriend. We work at the same company and I see him fairly often. At this point he is not speaking to me and it is bothering me deeply. Here's the drill-he is hands down the most beautiful person I've ever met, both inside and out-mentally, physically and personality-wise. Full Article

Sasha Answers: BFFs who serve and protect

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 11, 2013 18:38:30 March 11, 2013 18:38:30

Hi Sasha, So, this one is a bit of a cluster f-ck. My best friend has been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now-- since high school. They don't live together. My friend is lovely, and always has been lovely. I've got a long-term partner as well, and we do a lot of double-date action together. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I tell my best friend I love her?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 11, 2013 18:29:59 March 11, 2013 18:29:59

I think I’m in love with my best friend. The problem is, she’s straight. I think I’m gay. I’ve never been with a girl before, and I’ve found other girls drop dead gorgeous, but never really wanted to be intimate with any of them. I have a boyfriend, but it’s new, and we’re not that serious about each other. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I his girlfriend or not?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 5, 2013 20:05:30 March 5, 2013 20:05:30

Hey Sasha, I'm a graduate student who recently got out of a long distance relationship with a younger guy (he's 19, I'm 23). His deal is that he doesn't want commitment, and he wants to date other girls, but he loves me and maybe one day it'll work out again. When I came home for Christmas, I was hesitant about hanging out, but he bought me a Christmas present (my favourite Chanel perfume), and as we hung out more and more he took me on more "dates" i. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Weight loss/Small dick

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 4, 2013 19:11:06 March 4, 2013 19:11:06

Dear Sasha:  I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He's a great guy; hard worker, loyal, a great cook and he's hot. We have our differences, obviously, and I am way more expressive than he is: I'm constantly telling him low great he looks, I surprise him with gifts and basically show my appreciation for him in many different ways. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I f-cked my boss

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 4, 2013 18:50:25 March 4, 2013 18:50:25

Dear Sasha, My boss and I used to flirt together at work. But it’s always been over the table and really innocent. He’s very attractive, but he’s married, with a second kid on the way. A couple months ago, during one fairly drunken work party… ok, we weren’t wasted, but were both very tipsy, we ended up having sex. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Dude is hotter than I am

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 26, 2013 20:18:40 February 26, 2013 20:18:40
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Dear Sasha, I’ve started doing the online dating thing a couple of months ago, and I’ve been talking to one guy in particular for a few weeks before we decided to meet in person.  He looked really handsome on his profile pictures, but I figured most everyone put up their best pics online, so without being hideous, he probably wouldn’t be as handsome when we meet. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend wants a threesome

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 19, 2013 19:10:00 February 19, 2013 19:10:00

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years and he’s been pushing for a few months now, for us to have a threesome. And if was I to agree to it, I’d be the one picking the other girl. That, to him, should be an incentive for me to agree to the threesome, but the thing is, I have absolutely no interest in this. Full Article