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Sasha Answers: My mom won’t leave me alone

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 2, 2013 17:59:56 April 2, 2013 17:59:56

Dear Sasha, I recently got out of an abusive relationship. I have no interest in being social, and spend most of my days at home. I’ve stopped seeing my so-called friends because I realized most of them were more interested in coming over to gawk at me and go gossip, rather than being supportive. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How can I forgive myself?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 1, 2013 16:54:16 April 1, 2013 16:54:16
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Hi Sasha, Almost 4 years ago I did something that has filled me with regret….I cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years with my ex.  We had been in touch (which my boyfriend knew about) and after a night of drinking, kissed (quite passionately).  Nothing else happened.   I confessed to my boyfriend. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I tell him if I don’t want to keep it?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 1, 2013 16:44:30 April 1, 2013 16:44:30

Hi Sasha, I’m 20, I have a gorgeous 10-month-old baby girl whose dad and I broke up when I found out I was pregnant, and I have since met someone else. I found out a few days ago that I was pregnant again, and I’m struggling with whether or not to tell my boyfriend. I don’t think I am ready for a second baby, especially so close to the first one. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My roommate is dirty

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 26, 2013 19:28:24 March 26, 2013 19:28:24

I needed a roommate to help cut some costs of med school, but the one I found is just a nightmare. A classmate introduced us cause she was also new in town and looking for a place, but even though she’s really good at paying rent on time (even in advance sometimes), I’m just not sure we’re a good match. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I cry at work

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 25, 2013 16:51:19 March 25, 2013 16:51:19

Hi Sasha, My problem isn't with a person, it's with myself. I've turned into the "girl who cries at work". The truth is, I'm a very emotional person, and I know that.  I also don't feel like I am someone with low self-esteem issues, so I don't know if that is it. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My ex and our sex tape

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 25, 2013 16:43:53 March 25, 2013 16:43:53

Dear Sasha, My ex and I met in highschool and stayed together for 6 years. We were engaged for the last 9 months of our relationship. I broke off the engagement about a year ago, when I found out that he repeatedly cheated on me, including with one of my dormmates, among many other girls. I blocked all contact with him until about 4 months ago, when he started leaving me voicemails saying he was going to hurt himself, and that it will be on me. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Can I be friends with my friend’s ex?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 19, 2013 19:11:54 March 19, 2013 19:11:54

Hi, Sasha Here's the thing: one of my best friends started dating a guy and, though I had met him before, we became friends because of his relationship with her. Thing is, he recently broke up with her. Not in the most appropriate way, but I consider that it's not my business at all. He has become a very good friend to me, one of the best, but the problem is that she doesn't want me near him at all. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The Difficult Friend at my wedding

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 18, 2013 17:38:08 March 18, 2013 17:38:08

Hi Sasha, I'm getting married this summer! Very exciting! Here's the problem - I'm blessed with many close and wonderful female friends, but if I asked all the friends I wanted to ask, the bridal party would be bigger than the guests. My fiance will have only a best man, so for symmetry I'd like to ask my dearest friend who is coming from overseas to be my maid of honour. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The Work Crush & the Consolation Prize

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 18, 2013 17:19:20 March 18, 2013 17:19:20
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So I have this crazy crush on a guy at work - like can't stop thinking about him, feel a real connection kind of crush. There are several issues with this however: 1) I have a boyfriend - a longterm, live-in, have talked about house buying/marriage/babies one day in-the-not-so-distant-future boyfriend. Full Article

Sasha Answers: STI and race issues with my ex

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 12, 2013 17:20:25 March 12, 2013 17:20:25

Dear Sasha, Here's my problem, I am helplessly in love with my ex-boyfriend. We work at the same company and I see him fairly often. At this point he is not speaking to me and it is bothering me deeply. Here's the drill-he is hands down the most beautiful person I've ever met, both inside and out-mentally, physically and personality-wise. Full Article

Sasha Answers: BFFs who serve and protect

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 11, 2013 18:38:30 March 11, 2013 18:38:30

Hi Sasha, So, this one is a bit of a cluster f-ck. My best friend has been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now-- since high school. They don't live together. My friend is lovely, and always has been lovely. I've got a long-term partner as well, and we do a lot of double-date action together. Full Article