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Sasha Answers: Should I go to my brother’s wedding?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 19, 2012 19:15:02 November 19, 2012 19:15:02

Hi Sasha, My brother proposed to his girlfriend recently and I am super happy for him but I am having a problem with being able to attend the wedding.  I live overseas (my family is all in Canada and I am not) and I recently got let go from my job. My husband now has to keep us going until I can find other employment. Full Article

Sasha Answers: It’s time to leave

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 13, 2012 18:12:05 November 13, 2012 18:12:05

Sasha, my husband and I are both 30 years old. I met him when I was 22. We dated a year, tried long distance, broke-up, and remained friends for years. At 27, we got back together and began a long distance relationship that spanned 2.5 years until I finished my master’s degree. I immigrated to the UK a few months later and we married. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Sister War

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 12, 2012 17:44:51 November 12, 2012 17:44:51

Dear Sasha, My two best friends of 15 years who are sisters, are in an argument. I am unsure of what to do, because I agree with both to a certain extent and I don't want either to feel that I am choosing one over the other or that I am backstabbing them. I have stayed neutral so far and have not talked about one to the other, but I am unsure of how long I can keep it up without hurting any feelings. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My mother wants to speak

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 12, 2012 17:34:12 November 12, 2012 17:34:12

Hi Sasha, I need your help.  Here’s the situation – my mom is a drunk.  But that’s not the problem;  she has been for much of my life, we’ve tried to get her help, it doesn’t work,  I’ve given up on it, and I’ve come to terms with that. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My single friend is so annoying

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 6, 2012 17:53:03 November 6, 2012 17:53:03

Dear Sasha, I've been friends with this girl for 15 yrs.  During that time she married, had kids, and is now divorced.  I should mention that I'm still single and have no kids.  Now that she's newly divorced, guess what?  Suddenly, she wants to hang out almost every week end that she's kid-less (when they're with her ex), so a deluge of text messages come my way to hit the bar scene. Full Article

Sasha Answers: having sex on my period

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 5, 2012 18:16:55 November 5, 2012 18:16:55

Dear Sasha, I have something sort of embarrassing that I need your help with.  When I am on my period I get really horny, all I want to do is have sex with my boyfriend.  But what sucks is that he won’t go near me when I have it.  He thinks it’s gross.  I don’t think that’s fair of him but I just don’t know how to tell him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My best friend doesn’t love me in that way

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 5, 2012 18:10:35 November 5, 2012 18:10:35

I'm in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do. I can't help it, I swoon whenever I see him.  All of my friends say he is unattractive, but when we're together, we have so much fun, and I always make him laugh(which I love making him laugh).  Before my last relationship, so about 3-4 years ago, we used to hang out ALL THE TIME. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Supporting my mother-in-law

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 30, 2012 18:14:47 October 30, 2012 18:14:47

Dear Sasha, I have wonderful in-laws. The greatest, really (I'm biased, of course). My husband's father was recently diagnosed with cancer in his kidney. They plan to remove a large tumor along with one of his kidneys. He has a bad heart so cardiology is unsure of the surgery. They either remove the kidney or do a chemotherapy treatment. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Destination wedding gifts

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 29, 2012 18:14:49 October 29, 2012 18:14:49

Sasha! Help! I have two destination weddings in a month and am unable to determine proper destination wedding gift etiquette. I'm spending well over a thousand dollars just to attend each wedding do I also shell out for an expensive gift? ___ I’ve never really thought about what I consider a “destination” wedding to be, but after mulling it over for a couple of minutes I’ve come up with my own definition. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Married with a work crush

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 29, 2012 18:09:26 October 29, 2012 18:09:26

Hi Sasha, I recently started a new job which is quite time-consuming and keeps me away from home for longer than I'm used to.  It just so happens that I met someone here with whom I have enormous chemistry.  Chest rumbling, stomach aching, can't stop the declaration of admiration fantasies type of chemistry. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My friend just phantomed

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 23, 2012 18:57:40 October 23, 2012 18:57:40

Hi Sasha, I have a girlfriend who I met through work.  In May of this year she moved interstate after a whole lot of sh-t went down with her family (drug plagued sibling) I can see why she moved she needed a fresh start away from her family drama and the city we live in hasn't got as many opportunities for the work she was looking for, I was happy for her but also sad since we had become very close. Full Article