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Sasha Answers: Can a shove be harmless?

September 18, 2012 19:07:07 Posted at September 18, 2012 19:07:07
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha!  I've been with my boyfriend for seven years, and we have a beautiful two year old daughter together. He also has two older kids from a previous relationship as well. Our relationship has been an extremely rocky one. Our relationship has never been normal due to the step children and infidelity and he is also 16 years older than me (I am 28). Full Article

Sasha Answers: Go for the work dude

September 17, 2012 19:07:58 Posted at September 17, 2012 19:07:58
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hey Sasha!  I'm pushing 30, single, and all my friends are married. Even my baby brother. They all go out for group dinners, double dates, weekends up north and all that - couples only. Since they rarely invite me out with them, I really have no idea where to meet guys at this age. I'm not a club scene kind of girl, nor am I into the online dating thing. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Why isn’t my best friend happy for me?

September 17, 2012 18:59:03 Posted at September 17, 2012 18:59:03
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha.  So here’s my issue.  Last year was my freshman year of college and it was less than exciting to say the least.  I sort of slacked off in high school and ended up at a college that was absolutely not my first choice.  Although the school wasn’t for me, my best friend since I was young ended up going to that same school as well which worked out nicely. Full Article

Sasha Answers: FWB and Feelings

September 11, 2012 21:36:00 Posted at September 11, 2012 21:36:00
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha! Okay, so here's the deal. I've been in a friends with benefits relationship with this guy for a long time, too long really. It just turned into a stupid situation where I couldn't get away and kept going back even after repeatedly telling myself I was done.  Anyways, about a month ago we slept together again after several months of me actively trying to stay away from him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I just a plant-sitter?

September 10, 2012 20:35:26 Posted at September 10, 2012 20:35:26
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Sasha, I've been dating this guy for about five months now and I've really fallen for him.  He's treated me so well and I find him funny, attractive, and all that other good stuff.  He just left to go visit home for a month, and he gave me a key to his place to plant-sit.  Last time I was there I was hanging out and watching some TV and went to check my phone and picked up his (extra) phone by accident. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Really Short Crush

September 4, 2012 19:02:13 Posted at September 4, 2012 19:02:13
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I recently started a new job and as part of this I work closely with an external company who are based in a different city (2 hour train ride, maybe less). I speak to my contact at this company, lets call him John, several times a day, as well as emailing. About a week or two ago J emailed me a casual non work related email. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Confronting my boyfriend’s best girl

August 28, 2012 18:41:41 Posted at August 28, 2012 18:41:41
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and serious talks about engagement and marriage are taking place and things are going to happen soon.  He is incredibly wonderful in every way except for the matter of his female best friend.  You see, I have never met her, talked to her, or even engaged in any sort of communication with her. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The Dominant Friend

August 27, 2012 17:36:54 Posted at August 27, 2012 17:36:54
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, We have a small tight group of friend’s guys and girls, mostly couples. One member is quite dominant and I think it’s messing with the mojo of the group, and me. Nothing goes by without her opinion stated on it.  She’s likes and secretly expects to get her way, but can also be charming and affectionate. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend uses AshleyMadison

August 27, 2012 17:30:09 Posted at August 27, 2012 17:30:09
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I snooped, and I'm paying for it.  I was using my boyfriend's ipad and foolishly peeked in his email. Honestly, I was snooping to see if there was any hints of a forthcoming engagement (we've been together for over 2 years, living together since October, he's 34 and I'm 32). Full Article

Hi Sasha: My Dad’s Medical Secret

August 14, 2012 18:11:27 Posted at August 14, 2012 18:11:27
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I'm really confused right now, I went away with friends for the weekend so I decided to spend some quality time with my dad and chat a little bit over dinner. We were having a mindless conversation when suddenly he got all emotional and told me that he was not going to be around much longer, I almost had a heart attack trying to figure out why he was telling me that. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Cross-Culture Love

August 13, 2012 18:37:46 Posted at August 13, 2012 18:37:46
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I'm your standard Western woman and have been dating a Korean for four months now. We are great together yet in just these four months we've managed to break up and reunite.  We separated because I asked him to be more expressive about his feelings for me. He is great with showing it - surprise breakfast drop-offs, flowers, carrying my coat everywhere we go, asking what I need at the store (the little things that make one squee) and he is also very good with the "I love you's" but he didn't get me anything for my birthday and it put me in a sour mood. Full Article