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Sasha Answers: My Online Crush

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 1, 2012 18:28:46 October 1, 2012 18:28:46

Hello Sasha,   I've gotten myself into a bit of a weird situation. Don't judge, but a while ago out of pure boredom I found myself on a website where you randomly chat with strangers (not over webcam, ew). Anyway, usually I just go on to talk to someone I would have otherwise would never have talked to and it ends there. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I keep cheating on my boyfriend

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 25, 2012 18:06:21 September 25, 2012 18:06:21

Dear Sasha, I'm a horrible person, at least when it comes to relationships. I have been dating my boyfriend for a bit over four years now. About three years into the relationship, I got drunk, made out with a guy, broke up with my boyfriend and had sex with the other guy, only to find out the other guy was a total d-bag. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Are my friends leaving me out?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 25, 2012 18:01:04 September 25, 2012 18:01:04

I married a wonderful man almost a year ago, and moved from my downtown condo out to the burbs, bought a car, and became a commuter/grown-up/wife.  As such, I've found myself growing further and further away from some of my girlfriends - especially the ones the hubby is not overly fond of. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Lending my sister money

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 25, 2012 17:58:08 September 25, 2012 17:58:08

Hi Sasha,  My older sister and brother-in-law have two young kids. We all get along well. My sister and brother-in-law have combined solid, average, middle-class annual incomes - he works full-time, she works part-time. They live in a small condo in a very well-to-do neighbourhood. They had some financial difficulties a while ago, but are more stable now. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Can a shove be harmless?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 18, 2012 19:07:07 September 18, 2012 19:07:07

Hi Sasha!  I've been with my boyfriend for seven years, and we have a beautiful two year old daughter together. He also has two older kids from a previous relationship as well. Our relationship has been an extremely rocky one. Our relationship has never been normal due to the step children and infidelity and he is also 16 years older than me (I am 28). Full Article

Sasha Answers: Go for the work dude

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 17, 2012 19:07:58 September 17, 2012 19:07:58

Hey Sasha!  I'm pushing 30, single, and all my friends are married. Even my baby brother. They all go out for group dinners, double dates, weekends up north and all that - couples only. Since they rarely invite me out with them, I really have no idea where to meet guys at this age. I'm not a club scene kind of girl, nor am I into the online dating thing. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Why isn’t my best friend happy for me?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 17, 2012 18:59:03 September 17, 2012 18:59:03

Hi Sasha.  So here’s my issue.  Last year was my freshman year of college and it was less than exciting to say the least.  I sort of slacked off in high school and ended up at a college that was absolutely not my first choice.  Although the school wasn’t for me, my best friend since I was young ended up going to that same school as well which worked out nicely. Full Article

Sasha Answers: FWB and Feelings

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 11, 2012 21:36:00 September 11, 2012 21:36:00

Hi Sasha! Okay, so here's the deal. I've been in a friends with benefits relationship with this guy for a long time, too long really. It just turned into a stupid situation where I couldn't get away and kept going back even after repeatedly telling myself I was done.  Anyways, about a month ago we slept together again after several months of me actively trying to stay away from him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I just a plant-sitter?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 10, 2012 20:35:26 September 10, 2012 20:35:26

Sasha, I've been dating this guy for about five months now and I've really fallen for him.  He's treated me so well and I find him funny, attractive, and all that other good stuff.  He just left to go visit home for a month, and he gave me a key to his place to plant-sit.  Last time I was there I was hanging out and watching some TV and went to check my phone and picked up his (extra) phone by accident. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Really Short Crush

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 4, 2012 19:02:13 September 4, 2012 19:02:13

Hi Sasha, I recently started a new job and as part of this I work closely with an external company who are based in a different city (2 hour train ride, maybe less). I speak to my contact at this company, lets call him John, several times a day, as well as emailing. About a week or two ago J emailed me a casual non work related email. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Confronting my boyfriend’s best girl

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 28, 2012 18:41:41 August 28, 2012 18:41:41

I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and serious talks about engagement and marriage are taking place and things are going to happen soon.  He is incredibly wonderful in every way except for the matter of his female best friend.  You see, I have never met her, talked to her, or even engaged in any sort of communication with her. Full Article