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Sasha Answers: Should I UN-blonde?

August 13, 2012 18:32:47 Posted at August 13, 2012 18:32:47
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I'm a 30 year old single chick and my parents think my hair is ruining my life.  Seriously.  I have dark hair that I have dyed a nice medium-blonde, as I'm super fair and it's much more flattering on me, in my humble opinion.  I've been a little bummed lately because of all of my friends are getting married and I've been single for a long-ass time. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How Do I Tell Him I Used To Be Married

August 7, 2012 18:13:38 Posted at August 7, 2012 18:13:38
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi, When I was 18 I got married in Portugal to a friend's brother (who I was casually dating at the time) so I could get a visa to stay in the country. Anyway - me and the visa hubby divorced 10 months after my visa came through (we dated on and off for about a year, visa came through after 2 years, we have no contact since then but all was fine). Full Article

Sasha Answers: My friend, the cheater

July 31, 2012 17:20:59 Posted at July 31, 2012 17:20:59
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Sasha, So I have a problem and it's to do with my very best friend.  She's not a monogamous person, but she has a serious boyfriend right now who is.  They have been together for about a year and a half and are planning on moving in together.  He is wonderful to her.  He loves her dearly, treats her really well, etc etc and wants to marry her. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Love & Texting

July 30, 2012 17:35:33 Posted at July 30, 2012 17:35:33
Sasha Posted by Sasha

So I've started seeing this guy that I take seriously, more seriously than any other guy I've dated before and my problem is simple, with this build-up of interest and so on follows the whole texting each other back and forth of how was your day and blablabla. I don't like it.  If we're having dinner and talking, then sure talk about your week and so on, but I cannot engage in ritualistic exchange of the mundane activities of my day. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I propose to him?

July 30, 2012 17:27:46 Posted at July 30, 2012 17:27:46
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, Wondering what you think about proposing to him?  Thoughts?  A Need I remind you in season 6 of Friends when Monica proposes to Chandler?  Sure, not every woman wants to go down on bended knee, but S, if you’re cool to pony up and do the deed then I’m slapping you some skin, sister. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My dad and all the women

July 24, 2012 18:52:13 Posted at July 24, 2012 18:52:13
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I'm 32 years old and I'm sickened by my father's behavior. Here's the story, my parents got divorced when I was 6 years old, he then went on to marry a crazy bitch who made my life a living hell (she was verbally violent and she decided that I couldn't go back to her house because I had a bad influence on my father), he had two kids with this woman and stayed 10 years with her. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Deadbeat Brother

July 23, 2012 17:49:00 Posted at July 23, 2012 17:49:00
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha.  I have a problem that absolutely no one seems to know how to solve. My younger brother is 33 and still living at home. My Mum is in her 70s and was widowed a few years ago. She lives in a nice (but small) house and is quite conservative and set in her ways. My brother generally means well, but he is sporadically unemployed, always broke and binge drinks (regularly does coke) and then staggers home at all hours. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I Dull My Shine Around Men

July 23, 2012 17:44:32 Posted at July 23, 2012 17:44:32
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, Back in March, I met a gorgeous, smart and funny boy at a house warming party. We went back on the first night which is supposed to be a mistake but we then went on a lot of dates and carried on seeing each other. We never had the conversation because as far as I was concerned, we didn't need to. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Pull up your big girl drawers

July 10, 2012 19:10:36 Posted at July 10, 2012 19:10:36
Sasha Posted by Sasha

I am in my early twenties and I come from a culturally conservative family. My parents - who have been married since their early twenties - expect me to stay at home until I get married, too. This isn't a surprise to me, after all I knew this was coming. It was just that whenever we had the marriage conversation the idea of getting married or ever needing to have the argument of future living situations seemed so far away. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My BFF hates my ex

July 9, 2012 18:31:53 Posted at July 9, 2012 18:31:53
Sasha Posted by Sasha

So here's the story.  I was engaged to J last year.  We were together for just over 2 years....long story short- he was extremely emotionally and verbally abusive. I didn't really realize it until I was in deep.  We had a house together- and were on our way down the aisle.  Luckily, there came a breaking point and I managed to get out. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My pregnant BFF still smokes

July 9, 2012 18:22:09 Posted at July 9, 2012 18:22:09
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, My best friend is 10 weeks pregnant.  She was a heavy drinker and smoker, stopped drinking when she found out she was pregnant, but she's still smoking.  She's cut down to "a few per day" from a pack a day, but this is really bothering me.  She's never smoked in front of me, I think because she knows my feelings and she's embarrassed. Full Article