Sasha Answers Articles

Sasha Answers: The Dominant Friend

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 27, 2012 17:36:54 August 27, 2012 17:36:54

Hi Sasha, We have a small tight group of friend’s guys and girls, mostly couples. One member is quite dominant and I think it’s messing with the mojo of the group, and me. Nothing goes by without her opinion stated on it.  She’s likes and secretly expects to get her way, but can also be charming and affectionate. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend uses AshleyMadison

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 27, 2012 17:30:09 August 27, 2012 17:30:09

Dear Sasha, I snooped, and I'm paying for it.  I was using my boyfriend's ipad and foolishly peeked in his email. Honestly, I was snooping to see if there was any hints of a forthcoming engagement (we've been together for over 2 years, living together since October, he's 34 and I'm 32). Full Article

Hi Sasha: My Dad’s Medical Secret

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 14, 2012 18:11:27 August 14, 2012 18:11:27

Hi Sasha, I'm really confused right now, I went away with friends for the weekend so I decided to spend some quality time with my dad and chat a little bit over dinner. We were having a mindless conversation when suddenly he got all emotional and told me that he was not going to be around much longer, I almost had a heart attack trying to figure out why he was telling me that. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Cross-Culture Love

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 13, 2012 18:37:46 August 13, 2012 18:37:46

Dear Sasha, I'm your standard Western woman and have been dating a Korean for four months now. We are great together yet in just these four months we've managed to break up and reunite.  We separated because I asked him to be more expressive about his feelings for me. He is great with showing it - surprise breakfast drop-offs, flowers, carrying my coat everywhere we go, asking what I need at the store (the little things that make one squee) and he is also very good with the "I love you's" but he didn't get me anything for my birthday and it put me in a sour mood. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I UN-blonde?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 13, 2012 18:32:47 August 13, 2012 18:32:47

I'm a 30 year old single chick and my parents think my hair is ruining my life.  Seriously.  I have dark hair that I have dyed a nice medium-blonde, as I'm super fair and it's much more flattering on me, in my humble opinion.  I've been a little bummed lately because of all of my friends are getting married and I've been single for a long-ass time. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How Do I Tell Him I Used To Be Married

Sasha Posted by Sasha at August 7, 2012 18:13:38 August 7, 2012 18:13:38

Hi, When I was 18 I got married in Portugal to a friend's brother (who I was casually dating at the time) so I could get a visa to stay in the country. Anyway - me and the visa hubby divorced 10 months after my visa came through (we dated on and off for about a year, visa came through after 2 years, we have no contact since then but all was fine). Full Article

Sasha Answers: My friend, the cheater

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 31, 2012 17:20:59 July 31, 2012 17:20:59

Sasha, So I have a problem and it's to do with my very best friend.  She's not a monogamous person, but she has a serious boyfriend right now who is.  They have been together for about a year and a half and are planning on moving in together.  He is wonderful to her.  He loves her dearly, treats her really well, etc etc and wants to marry her. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Love & Texting

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 30, 2012 17:35:33 July 30, 2012 17:35:33

So I've started seeing this guy that I take seriously, more seriously than any other guy I've dated before and my problem is simple, with this build-up of interest and so on follows the whole texting each other back and forth of how was your day and blablabla. I don't like it.  If we're having dinner and talking, then sure talk about your week and so on, but I cannot engage in ritualistic exchange of the mundane activities of my day. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I propose to him?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 30, 2012 17:27:46 July 30, 2012 17:27:46

Hi Sasha, Wondering what you think about proposing to him?  Thoughts?  A Need I remind you in season 6 of Friends when Monica proposes to Chandler?  Sure, not every woman wants to go down on bended knee, but S, if you’re cool to pony up and do the deed then I’m slapping you some skin, sister. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My dad and all the women

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 24, 2012 18:52:13 July 24, 2012 18:52:13

Hi Sasha, I'm 32 years old and I'm sickened by my father's behavior. Here's the story, my parents got divorced when I was 6 years old, he then went on to marry a crazy bitch who made my life a living hell (she was verbally violent and she decided that I couldn't go back to her house because I had a bad influence on my father), he had two kids with this woman and stayed 10 years with her. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Deadbeat Brother

Sasha Posted by Sasha at July 23, 2012 17:49:00 July 23, 2012 17:49:00

Hi Sasha.  I have a problem that absolutely no one seems to know how to solve. My younger brother is 33 and still living at home. My Mum is in her 70s and was widowed a few years ago. She lives in a nice (but small) house and is quite conservative and set in her ways. My brother generally means well, but he is sporadically unemployed, always broke and binge drinks (regularly does coke) and then staggers home at all hours. Full Article