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Sasha Answers: My PTSD Boyfriend’s Naked Pictures

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 8, 2012 18:53:52 May 8, 2012 18:53:52

I'm in need of straight talk here. I've been with my man for two years. I knew pretty early on I wanted to spend my life with him, and so proposed. We've been engaged for about a year and a half. We haven't set a date because during our time together we've had to find a way to work through his PTSD, which is pretty severe. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He Needs Space

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 7, 2012 18:55:55 May 7, 2012 18:55:55

Quick Coles Notes version:  started working with a guy a year and a half, almost two, years ago. We became good friends pretty quickly, but he was dating someone at the time so it was pure friendship between us.  He broke up with that girl, we hung out a few times, and then he got back together with her. Full Article

Sasha Answers: my boyfriend’s ignorant dad

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 7, 2012 18:50:34 May 7, 2012 18:50:34

Since this website has been handling the issue of racism so well, I'd like your take on a sh-tstorm I've stirred up. At a dinner at my partner's family house, his dad drops the n-word. Twice. My boyfriend was not in the room at the time, but the other adults were. No one said a thing. His mom, brother, and sister in law - silence. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How Do I Break Up With My Best Friend?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 1, 2012 17:24:25 May 1, 2012 17:24:25

Sasha, I have been “best” friends with K For over 10 years.  We met while waitressing and since then, I have completed school and moved into a pretty successful career.  And not to judge, but she is still a waitress (ok, a little judgy).  Up until 2 years ago, K and I have always been there for each other, especially during the rough times. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I Make Moves On My Friend?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 30, 2012 16:38:24 April 30, 2012 16:38:24

Hi Sasha, I need your advice.  I’m 25 years old and I’ve been friends with this really great guy for 13 years now, since we were in the eighth grade.  I knew then that he was into me (maybe more than that) for many of those years, and he later confessed to this years after high school.  Anyway, despite him feeling this way, he never did anything ballsy or confess to it until after the fact. Full Article

Sasha Answers: In Love With My Coworker

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 30, 2012 16:24:10 April 30, 2012 16:24:10

Dear Sasha, I have had a major crush on my male coworker for several months now. It all started because several people said he was really into me. At first I had no interest because I know workplace relationships are usually doomed to fail and will only end in awkwardness. But this guy grew on me. We have had a mutual flirtation going on. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I am my roommate’s caregiver

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 24, 2012 18:43:44 April 24, 2012 18:43:44

I am a University student and I live with 3 other girls in residence. Three of us have been together in this room since the first day of school but M came into the picture in October when she had a falling out with her previous roommate. As she started to settle in, we became close and then I got to know the kind of emotional and psychological issues she's dealing with in her life. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My BF Is Sketchy

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 23, 2012 19:03:00 April 23, 2012 19:03:00

Dear Sasha, I have a friend who I have been tight with for over 10 years. I consider her my closest friend so she has priority over all my other friends. I treat her like she's my sister.  Ok so here's some history you need to know before I get to the problem. She has been dating this guy for over 5 years, this guy however has a live in girlfriend of over 10 years. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Is Marriage A Life Sentence?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 23, 2012 18:55:43 April 23, 2012 18:55:43

I am set to get married very soon. I love him with all my heart, he's my best friend and I am excited to be his wife. We've been together for many, many years already. As excited as I am, as soon as I run out of wedding tasks, I can't help feeling panicky. Not about him, but about being married. It feels so grown up, like my whole life is over and decided and boring and typical. Full Article

Sasha Answers: my boyfriend’s wingman is a girl

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 17, 2012 18:28:54 April 17, 2012 18:28:54

Dear Sasha,I have recently started dating a new guy, and generally it's going great. He's nice, smart, hot, and treats me well. The only issue I have right now is his friends....well one friend in particular. He has about four really close male friends, and then there's this girl.  She's with the five of them all the time and I've never seen her with any female friends ever. Full Article

Sasha Answers: it’s time at 36

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 16, 2012 18:16:19 April 16, 2012 18:16:19

I am 30 days away from my 36 birthday...I have lived in this city a decade (!!) and I have dated 3 guys in that entire time, one of whom sucked up 8 years worth of my time and effort and 'baby making years'.  I do not know where to go in this city to meet like minded, age appropriate people and for the first time since losing my dad I want to go out and do something fun, invigorating and life affirming!  I feel so angry that I let this happen, that I was an audience member in my own life instead of an active player, it is heart breaking to me that i squandered a decade here waiting for someone to consider me worthy when I should have been exploring what this city has to offer and meeting exciting and new people. Full Article