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Sasha Answers: douchebags online

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 25, 2012 17:53:57 June 25, 2012 17:53:57

I joined a dating site.  I clicked immediately with this guy, M.  He understood my sense of humor in my emails, and pretty soon we were texting.  And I mean texting. He was texting morning, noon, and night.  He was relentless, romantic, funny, and intoxicating. We finally met for dinner Friday night, he was kind, but not the same dude I was texting with. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Letting go of a cheater

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 19, 2012 17:52:50 June 19, 2012 17:52:50

Dear Sasha, I caught my now ex-bf of 2.5 years cheating on me for over the past 2 years. We had met on match.com in September 2009 and I had thought I had found the one. I was 24 going on 25 at the time, he was 26. He was stationed on the naval base in Hawaii for 5 years before moving out to NJ in 2007. Full Article

Sasha Answers: When he takes off in the middle of the night

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 18, 2012 17:38:17 June 18, 2012 17:38:17

It's 6 am. I am a mess cause I've been crying for an hour, and desperately need some advice. A and I had a somewhat fast tracked/intense relationship, dropping the L bomb within the first 3 months.  A few weeks back we started talking about the prospect of living together and the last time I brought the topic up he started acting weird. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Botox behind his back

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 18, 2012 17:32:46 June 18, 2012 17:32:46

Sasha, I have a bit of a problem. It’s not world-ending, by any means, but I’m not sure what to do. I’m 37 years old and married to a smart, talented, successful guy who’s also my best bud. Lucky, right? Here’s the thing and I’ll just lay it out there. I’m not a bad looking girl. Full Article

Sasha Answers: No Scrubs

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 5, 2012 18:52:11 June 5, 2012 18:52:11

Here is the situation. I was with X for just under 3 years. Rewind two summers ago, he had his bank account hacked and I offered to support him for the month until the bank refunded the amount taken, at which point he would pay me back. Throughout the month, thinking he was going to pay me back, I paid for trips, concerts and the daily expenses with my savings and debt repayment funds (I’m a 20-something with student debt, while he is much older than me). Full Article

Sasha Answers: Dating With Training Wheels

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 4, 2012 18:40:50 June 4, 2012 18:40:50

Here's the situation. I was physically and mentally abused by my father for 15 years. The physical abuse is hard to get past, yes, but the mental abuse has taken its toll in a big way. We moved away and I had therapy and managed to, at least intellectually, come to grips with it was his fault, not mine. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Stepmother is off her meds

Sasha Posted by Sasha at June 4, 2012 18:28:23 June 4, 2012 18:28:23

Dear Sasha, About 9 years ago, during my first year of university, my parents split up. As all divorces are, it was a tough time for everyone in the family, but in the end we all knew it was for the best. My dad had never really been single before and rushed into trying to find a new Mrs as soon as possible for comfort. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Cuddling At Camp

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 29, 2012 18:49:29 May 29, 2012 18:49:29

Hi Sasha, I’m a gay, sexually frustrated teenager. Last summer, when I was a camp counselor, I had a confusing “situation”, with this guy, P. He can be funny, but he has trouble picking up on social cues and can also be pretty awkward. Anyway, while my camp is very touchy-feely and cuddly and most staff members have seen each other naked, people started to notice when P would always want to sit with me at the staff meetings every night, and would cuddle up with me, since I’m out of the closet. Full Article

Sasha Answers: The Quarter Life Crisis

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 28, 2012 19:02:40 May 28, 2012 19:02:40

Hi Sasha: So I need a bit of career advice. I´m 24 years old, just last year I finished University, the problem is that I´m working in a place where i don’t really feel comfortable or motivated. I´m afraid that if I quit, i will take a few months to get another job, but i really dont want to keep working here. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I’m broke for my friend’s bday

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 22, 2012 18:21:59 May 22, 2012 18:21:59

Sasha, I’ve been out of work for the last couple of months and because of that I’ve had to scale back on a lot of social activities.  My friend’s 30th birthday is coming up and her best friend has planned this big dinner out at a fancy restaurant in the city.  I live in NYC, so things are even more expensive here. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Brother’s Big Mistake Wedding

Sasha Posted by Sasha at May 15, 2012 16:20:34 May 15, 2012 16:20:34

Dear Sasha, My big brother's been seeing this girl for two and a half years and they now want to get married. They're both 26. A bit of background: she's the first girl he's ever dated, while he's her second serious relationship. Her ex is a psycho who divorced his wife for her, and even now regularly calls her and threatens suicide and stuff. Full Article