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Sasha Answers: Should I Make Moves On My Friend?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 30, 2012 16:38:24 April 30, 2012 16:38:24

Hi Sasha, I need your advice.  I’m 25 years old and I’ve been friends with this really great guy for 13 years now, since we were in the eighth grade.  I knew then that he was into me (maybe more than that) for many of those years, and he later confessed to this years after high school.  Anyway, despite him feeling this way, he never did anything ballsy or confess to it until after the fact. Full Article

Sasha Answers: In Love With My Coworker

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 30, 2012 16:24:10 April 30, 2012 16:24:10

Dear Sasha, I have had a major crush on my male coworker for several months now. It all started because several people said he was really into me. At first I had no interest because I know workplace relationships are usually doomed to fail and will only end in awkwardness. But this guy grew on me. We have had a mutual flirtation going on. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I am my roommate’s caregiver

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 24, 2012 18:43:44 April 24, 2012 18:43:44

I am a University student and I live with 3 other girls in residence. Three of us have been together in this room since the first day of school but M came into the picture in October when she had a falling out with her previous roommate. As she started to settle in, we became close and then I got to know the kind of emotional and psychological issues she's dealing with in her life. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My BF Is Sketchy

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 23, 2012 19:03:00 April 23, 2012 19:03:00

Dear Sasha, I have a friend who I have been tight with for over 10 years. I consider her my closest friend so she has priority over all my other friends. I treat her like she's my sister.  Ok so here's some history you need to know before I get to the problem. She has been dating this guy for over 5 years, this guy however has a live in girlfriend of over 10 years. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Is Marriage A Life Sentence?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 23, 2012 18:55:43 April 23, 2012 18:55:43

I am set to get married very soon. I love him with all my heart, he's my best friend and I am excited to be his wife. We've been together for many, many years already. As excited as I am, as soon as I run out of wedding tasks, I can't help feeling panicky. Not about him, but about being married. It feels so grown up, like my whole life is over and decided and boring and typical. Full Article

Sasha Answers: my boyfriend’s wingman is a girl

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 17, 2012 18:28:54 April 17, 2012 18:28:54

Dear Sasha,I have recently started dating a new guy, and generally it's going great. He's nice, smart, hot, and treats me well. The only issue I have right now is his friends....well one friend in particular. He has about four really close male friends, and then there's this girl.  She's with the five of them all the time and I've never seen her with any female friends ever. Full Article

Sasha Answers: it’s time at 36

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 16, 2012 18:16:19 April 16, 2012 18:16:19

I am 30 days away from my 36 birthday...I have lived in this city a decade (!!) and I have dated 3 guys in that entire time, one of whom sucked up 8 years worth of my time and effort and 'baby making years'.  I do not know where to go in this city to meet like minded, age appropriate people and for the first time since losing my dad I want to go out and do something fun, invigorating and life affirming!  I feel so angry that I let this happen, that I was an audience member in my own life instead of an active player, it is heart breaking to me that i squandered a decade here waiting for someone to consider me worthy when I should have been exploring what this city has to offer and meeting exciting and new people. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My straight crush might not be straight

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 16, 2012 18:07:17 April 16, 2012 18:07:17

Hi Sasha, I met this guy about a year ago. He was someone who I knew of, but who I had never met. From the first that we met, we became great friends - and present day, I would say he's my best friend. The first night we met, I kind of thought he might like guys. But, I didn't say anything, kept my mouth shut. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I move on my best friend’s brother?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 3, 2012 16:55:38 April 3, 2012 16:55:38

Sasha, basically I'm in love with my best friend's brother, D. The feelings started creeping up about 3 years ago when H (his sister and my best friend) got married. We were both in the wedding party and were spending more time together then we usually do. Although I am extremely close to their family and spend a lot of time with them. Full Article

Sasha Answers: my boyfriend’s warning

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 2, 2012 18:44:54 April 2, 2012 18:44:54

Dear Sasha, I've been in a relationship with Z for several months now and things are amazing. A few nights ago though, we had our first 'tiff' which was a total fu-k up on my end. Z agreed to come to a show which one of my friends was performing in. I had originally thought we would go see it on the opening night which was a Thursday, but suggested we actually go Friday as we both have work and school during the week. Full Article

Sasha Answers: he’s famous & ashamed of me

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 2, 2012 18:38:03 April 2, 2012 18:38:03

Sasha! I have a definite issue. I have been dating this guy, we'll call him J, for about seven months now. We get along great, he's good to me, sex is amazing,ect ect. The problem? He's a (pretty A list) movie actor. I know it sounds nuts (trust me, sometimes I can't even believe it myself) but it's been fun and exciting and something new. Full Article