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Sasha Answers: my boyfriend’s wingman is a girl

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 17, 2012 18:28:54 April 17, 2012 18:28:54

Dear Sasha,I have recently started dating a new guy, and generally it's going great. He's nice, smart, hot, and treats me well. The only issue I have right now is his friends....well one friend in particular. He has about four really close male friends, and then there's this girl.  She's with the five of them all the time and I've never seen her with any female friends ever. Full Article

Sasha Answers: it’s time at 36

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 16, 2012 18:16:19 April 16, 2012 18:16:19

I am 30 days away from my 36 birthday...I have lived in this city a decade (!!) and I have dated 3 guys in that entire time, one of whom sucked up 8 years worth of my time and effort and 'baby making years'.  I do not know where to go in this city to meet like minded, age appropriate people and for the first time since losing my dad I want to go out and do something fun, invigorating and life affirming!  I feel so angry that I let this happen, that I was an audience member in my own life instead of an active player, it is heart breaking to me that i squandered a decade here waiting for someone to consider me worthy when I should have been exploring what this city has to offer and meeting exciting and new people. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My straight crush might not be straight

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 16, 2012 18:07:17 April 16, 2012 18:07:17

Hi Sasha, I met this guy about a year ago. He was someone who I knew of, but who I had never met. From the first that we met, we became great friends - and present day, I would say he's my best friend. The first night we met, I kind of thought he might like guys. But, I didn't say anything, kept my mouth shut. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I move on my best friend’s brother?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 3, 2012 16:55:38 April 3, 2012 16:55:38

Sasha, basically I'm in love with my best friend's brother, D. The feelings started creeping up about 3 years ago when H (his sister and my best friend) got married. We were both in the wedding party and were spending more time together then we usually do. Although I am extremely close to their family and spend a lot of time with them. Full Article

Sasha Answers: my boyfriend’s warning

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 2, 2012 18:44:54 April 2, 2012 18:44:54

Dear Sasha, I've been in a relationship with Z for several months now and things are amazing. A few nights ago though, we had our first 'tiff' which was a total fu-k up on my end. Z agreed to come to a show which one of my friends was performing in. I had originally thought we would go see it on the opening night which was a Thursday, but suggested we actually go Friday as we both have work and school during the week. Full Article

Sasha Answers: he’s famous & ashamed of me

Sasha Posted by Sasha at April 2, 2012 18:38:03 April 2, 2012 18:38:03

Sasha! I have a definite issue. I have been dating this guy, we'll call him J, for about seven months now. We get along great, he's good to me, sex is amazing,ect ect. The problem? He's a (pretty A list) movie actor. I know it sounds nuts (trust me, sometimes I can't even believe it myself) but it's been fun and exciting and something new. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I believe him?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 27, 2012 18:53:06 March 27, 2012 18:53:06

Dear Sasha I have been with my current boyfriend (T) for almost a year now.  When we first got together, he had only broken up with his fiancee three months prior and I was actually still in a relationship: I left my previous boyfriend to be with him.  Six months later, T wanted me to move across the country to live with him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Freeloading Neighbours

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 26, 2012 18:11:21 March 26, 2012 18:11:21

So… I live in a neighborhood with a lot of young, fun couples/families and on weekends a handful of us like to get together at one of our houses to make dinner and play games.  In the last couple of months we have some new neighbors that moved in directly across the street from me, and despite the fact that they've never been invited to the dinners and game nights, they will just randomly show up. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Sex For A Widow

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 26, 2012 18:04:00 March 26, 2012 18:04:00

I am a 33 yr old widow and mother of a small child. My husband and I had been together from the age of 17 and had an incredible relationship. We were lucky that we evolved together as we grew into adults, but we also both put in a lot of effort to have the relationship that we did. It was a good solid love that started with serious physical attraction and got stronger over theyears. Full Article

Sasha Answers: It’s Time To Leave The Deadbeat

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 20, 2012 18:36:08 March 20, 2012 18:36:08

Hi Sasha,11yrs ago I met my husband S, I was 18 he was 20, I had never really had a relationship before so it was new and fun and he was well a bad boy, so of course that attracted me even more.  He took me out of my confines which I so desperately wanted but he also introduced me to a world of drugs and violence, he was up for charges when we met (hello red flag now). Full Article

Sasha Answers: My Psychic Cord

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 19, 2012 18:08:41 March 19, 2012 18:08:41

Sasha, so there's this guy T, who has been one of my best friends for almost 5 years now. We met freshman year in college, remained super close throughout our 4 years there, were in the same close group of friends, etc. I bet you can tell where this story is going. Basically, I have liked this guy the whole time I've known him. Full Article