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Sasha Answers: My Boyfriend’s Blowouts

December 12, 2011 19:43:03 Posted at December 12, 2011 19:43:03
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I have been dating this guy for 9 months.  I am 23 and he is 34.  Age difference aside I really do love him and possibly see a future with him.  He treats me great and when it comes down to it he is just a caring, loving, kind hearted guy.  My problem with him though is that he likes to go to these music festivals during the summer for a few days. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Meangirled By My Mother

December 12, 2011 19:36:52 Posted at December 12, 2011 19:36:52
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha! My mother and I have never had a very good relationship. Whatever our relationship is, it's definitely not the typical mother/daughter relationship. My mom was 17 when I was born and I feel like she has always resented me for taking away her youth. She recently told me that I have never allowed her to be a mother which I can't even begin to understand how that is possible. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Can I drink my own wine?

December 6, 2011 19:26:43 Posted at December 6, 2011 19:26:43
Sasha Posted by Sasha

 Dear Sasha, I love wine.  I love red wine.  I won't hesitate to spend $20, $40, $60 on a bottle of wine.  So here is my question to you:  whenever I go to a dinner party, house party, etc. I always bring the host a gift and a bottle of the wine that I would drink.  Sometimes when at these parties, the host provides great wine as well but also, some provide the cheapest wine they can find. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Victim of The Office Meangirl

December 5, 2011 19:00:05 Posted at December 5, 2011 19:00:05
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Help! I am being meangirled at work by a horrible person.  Things were cool when I started here. A was super nice to me and we lunched and hanged out all the time. She is very close to my boss, so the three of us would hang out. I thought it was great! But, things started to go down hill...i started to notice that they were spending a lot of time in his office - gossiping about other coworkers. Full Article

Sasha Answers: the old flame What If

December 5, 2011 18:55:49 Posted at December 5, 2011 18:55:49
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, How do you tell someone that you haven't spoken with in almost ten years that you still think about and could quite possibly still have feelings for them. I have been dealing with this for some time now and just push it under the rug. All of this was fine and dandy until I got a message from him pretty much saying what I have been thinking all these years. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How do I make the first move?

November 30, 2011 19:21:01 Posted at November 30, 2011 19:21:01
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha. I met this guy a few days ago, we`ll call him W, who I`ve actually been checking out since the beginning of the semester. I saw him outside of class and just went up to him and talked and was really happy to find out that he seems like a great guy. We talked for a while and he shook my hand twice, when we first introduced ourselves and when I left, if that even means anything. Full Article

Sasha: my best friend yells at me

November 29, 2011 18:44:15 Posted at November 29, 2011 18:44:15
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I am in a rather difficult situation with my best friend and I am at a loss as to what to do about it without it becoming really uncomfortable.She sends me between 10 to 15 texts a day and she wants to see me all the time. She bangs on about the importance of friendship and being burnt by friends previously. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Laying Claims

November 29, 2011 18:40:03 Posted at November 29, 2011 18:40:03
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Dear Sasha, I have a friend, we'll call him A. A and I have been best friends for over a year, when we started hanging out there was an instant connection and we've basically hung out all day every day since. A couple months ago, a friend (J) who I dated up until a few weeks of this occurrence was driving me home from the bar. Full Article

Sasha Answers: getting rid of a friend

November 23, 2011 13:56:30 Posted at November 23, 2011 13:56:30
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Sasha,I have got a major problem that I defs need some advice.  I lived with the same group of girls all through university, all friends. But you know how it is, there's always one person in each group who doesn’t fit in and tends to be the butt-end of jokes. There was this one girl we lived with that fit this mould-- she didnt share in the same type of humor as everyone else, she was a super prude and was super pretentious and didn’t ENJOY to EAT (not in an ano way, just in that she ate plain pieces of chicken everyday and gagged when we cooked up something truly delicious). Full Article

Sasha Answers: a possessive friend

November 21, 2011 19:07:59 Posted at November 21, 2011 19:07:59
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Hi Sasha, I've got a dilemma. First of all, I'm a happily married woman. Let's get that out of the way. I am a total extrovert and he isn't so I've got loads of friends to hang and do things with and that's how it's always been. We're cool.  I went back to uni for my Masters a couple of years back and I met up with a lovely guy that was my coursemate. Full Article

Sasha Answers: mom’s life on hold

November 21, 2011 19:00:17 Posted at November 21, 2011 19:00:17
Sasha Posted by Sasha

Here’s the thing. I can’t ask my friends because they’re selfish bitches/bastards and only want me back in Dallas. Back story- Grew up everywhere but most of my 20s I lived in Dallas. I go back A LOT because I consider it where I’m from. Here’s the ‘thing’. One summer whilst visiting Nova Scotia from Ontario (where I was back in Uni), I got drunk and fell down and woke up pregnant. Full Article