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Sasha Answers: My best friend is The One

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 16, 2015 17:28:00 March 16, 2015 17:28:00

Good afternoon Sasha.  Long story short, I ended up befriending an undergraduate student at the university. Ev.erything just clicked between us; our friendship came easily. We have a lot in common.  We are known as a duo on campus because we are together most of the time, some people even assuming that we are a couple. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Alone > Unhappy

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 9, 2015 19:29:52 March 9, 2015 19:29:52

Hi Sasha, I'm writing because I need some tough love in my life. Here's the story: last July I met a guy called T through Tinder, he seemed nice, I was horny and just saw it as a casual thing that wouldn't mean anything to me... Fast foward 8 months and we're still talking and see each other from time to time. Full Article

Sasha Answers: How do I tell Team Lainey?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 9, 2015 16:15:23 March 9, 2015 16:15:23
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Hi Sasha, I'm having a baby. It's still new and fresh and we haven't told many people yet, waiting until we make it through the first trimester. We're excited and obviously terrified. I'm also nervous, but not for the obvious reasons: I have a lovely group of girlfriends, but there is a big contingent of my besties who don't love kids. Full Article

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Sasha Answers: She says fighting is normal

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 3, 2015 17:33:42 March 3, 2015 17:33:42
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Hi Sasha, I've been with my girlfriend for over two years now. I'm 25, I haven't had significant experience in relationships before and I have never been with a girl before so firstly, I don't have much to compare it to and secondly, I don't know whether I might be applying double standards to women and men (as in, from men I wouldn't take behaviour that I do from women). Full Article

Sasha Answers: Does he “like” too much?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 2, 2015 17:14:36 March 2, 2015 17:14:36

Hi Sasha, My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now. We clicked immediately upon meeting and said I love you within a week. We are both in our early 30s and have had a few relationships before this, so we knew what we were looking for when we met and were both really excited to have found one another. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I want to have (just) sex with him again

Sasha Posted by Sasha at March 2, 2015 16:51:35 March 2, 2015 16:51:35

Dear Sasha, I am a single mother of an adorable 3 year old. My husband and I separated when she was six months old. I did not think I would have any romantic or sexual life once my marriage ended. In the last few months though things have changed. My loins began to quiver again (thank you Nick Jonas). Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I tell his ex about me?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 24, 2015 17:48:34 February 24, 2015 17:48:34
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Dear Sasha, A couple of months ago I was introduced to a wonderful man by mutual friends.  We have been dating since then and things are going really well, he recently invited me to fly to his hometown to spend the weekend with his family. Things are getting serious… we are both in our early 30s and looking for a long term relationship. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Trying to understand my scumbag ex

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 17, 2015 16:33:40 February 17, 2015 16:33:40

Hi Sasha, Three months ago, I had a messy break-up with my first long-term boyfriend, K. We dated for 3 1/2 years, I was a solid, supportive partner, and then he turned cold and distant over the span of about 6-8 months. When the break-up came, he cut me off for convoluted reasons that didn't make much sense at the time. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I don’t trust his ex

Sasha Posted by Sasha at February 11, 2015 16:43:10 February 11, 2015 16:43:10
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My fiancé showed me a text he received today from his ex, whom he dated for half a year and then broke up with, before dating me. The text was harmless enough, but there is something about this woman that has always made me slightly nervous. I have never been the jealous type, but there's something about this woman (whom I will dub, B) that I've never liked. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Do I tell the new guy about my STI?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at January 27, 2015 17:43:28 January 27, 2015 17:43:28

Dear Sasha I really need your help.  This is going to sound very after school special but I’ve run into a moral dilemma and need your help.  Long story short I had a few quickies with this hot guy I work with and after a few months of having sex I found out that he gave me an STD.  (I’d rather not say which kind)  I’ve taken care of it but now I’m dating another guy, whom I really really like, so my question is do I tell him that I have this STD and this is where it gets bad because I’ve already slept with him. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Am I obligated to be the client?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at January 20, 2015 17:06:49 January 20, 2015 17:06:49
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Hi Sasha, My question is this: if you have a close friend or a relative who works in a fee- or commission-based industry, are you obligated to use him/her for their service? For example, if my brother is a real estate agent, am I obligated to buy a house through him? Or if a good friend is a hairstylist, am I obligated to go to her? What’s the thing to do? Suck it up for the sake of the relationship or do what you want/think is right? Thanks T ___ The adage “don't go into business with friendship” exists for good reason because there will always be two major issues at stake – friendship and money. Full Article