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Sasha Answers: Stop being a jealous dick to your friend

Sasha Posted by Sasha at January 19, 2015 17:22:06 January 19, 2015 17:22:06

Hi Sasha, BFF and I have an extremely close friendship (even as BFF-ships go) and we always have. In the 10+ years of our friendship, we've also both been generally single, mostly by choice. I am still very happily single. My BFF has just gotten into a serious relationship, however, and I'm freaking out. Full Article

Sasha Answers: You are the side piece

Sasha Posted by Sasha at January 19, 2015 16:36:19 January 19, 2015 16:36:19

Dear Sasha, I don't know what to do about my best friend, E. She was not-quite dating her other best friend, A, but they are basically estranged at the moment while A tries to deal with whatever mental health issues cause her to be abusive to E. Since they made this decision to barely talk, E and I have been sleeping together. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Should I date another co-worker?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at January 13, 2015 20:01:44 January 13, 2015 20:01:44
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Since the summer I've had a flirtation with a guy at work and he recently asked me out. He's cute, nice, right around my age, but the problem is I dated a coworker at my last job and while it wasn't a bad experience, I would just prefer not to complicate my work life.  Am I making a fool out of myself if I say yes? Or am I over thinking the situation?   ____ I'm always confused by the "should I, or shouldn't I" date my co-worker question because isn't this the best place to date!? We spend so much of our time there and there's a half-decent chance working in the same place means you have some similar interests; I mean, it seems only natural that’s where we’d pick up ass, but yes, fine, it's also known as sh-tting in your own bed. Full Article

Answers: My friend went behind my back

Sasha Posted by Sasha at January 5, 2015 17:44:46 January 5, 2015 17:44:46
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Dear Sasha, I dated H for a few weeks and I liked him. Even though I thought things were going well, he suddenly wanted to be friends. I was confused and obviously disappointed, but c'est la vie. Fast forward a few weeks later where my friend R tells me that H reached out to her, supposedly, after he ended things with me, and they really feel like they have a strong connection. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My best friend’s new accent

Sasha Posted by Sasha at January 5, 2015 17:05:03 January 5, 2015 17:05:03

Dear Sasha, I don’t know if this is totally petty of me but my best friend and I were living in Australia for the last month whereby we had an amazing time together.  But something has really been annoying me. Ever since we got back my best friend has miraculously taken up an Aussie accent. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I catfished a guy

Sasha Posted by Sasha at December 16, 2014 17:56:11 December 16, 2014 17:56:11

Hi Sasha, I've done a bad thing and could really use your advice. About a month ago, I met a guy online and we kind of instantly hit it off. We talked for about a week before he started to ask if he could see more than just face shots of me. Well, I did the worst thing I've ever done and sent him pictures of some random girl I found online. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I gossip about my friends

Sasha Posted by Sasha at December 15, 2014 17:27:39 December 15, 2014 17:27:39

Hi Sasha.  I am not a *great* friend. I sometimes gossip about my friends behind their back(s). I guess I feel the need to constantly discuss people and their idiosyncrasies and how we relate...it just always comes out as sh-t-talking, when in fact I do really love these people. My husband called me out on it a few times, He thinks it's an ugly thing and he's right. Full Article

Sasha Answers: I slept with her husband and she offered me a job

Sasha Posted by Sasha at December 15, 2014 17:15:29 December 15, 2014 17:15:29
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Dear Sasha, Nine years ago, I had a one night stand with a coworker. We also studied together at University, so we knew each other a while back. Then, we went on a work trip –to a Mexican beach– and ended up at a club. We both were drunk, and I was recently single. I was 31 years old and had been in a relationship for seven years (that didn't end easily), so all I wanted was to party and hook up. Full Article

Sasha Answers: One Hot Kiss

Sasha Posted by Sasha at December 9, 2014 21:33:32 December 9, 2014 21:33:32
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Sasha, I f-cked up big time and I really need someone objective to tell me the truth. Background: I’ve been married for 9 years to my college sweetheart. Our relationship was always great. Best friends, same values etc. We had a full, happy life together. Until we had children. Both of our kids have severe health issues and for the past five years our marriage has crumbled under the constant stress and weight of caring for them. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He’s hot but he’s such a dick

Sasha Posted by Sasha at December 8, 2014 17:17:22 December 8, 2014 17:17:22
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Hi Sasha, I've only been seeing this guy for about a month, but we started sleeping together really quickly and now we are sleeping at each other’s places two or three nights a week. That is all really fast for me, but we have really, really intense physical chemistry and kinda can't keep our hands off each other. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Do I have a big bond with my colleague?

Sasha Posted by Sasha at December 8, 2014 17:01:17 December 8, 2014 17:01:17

Need your help. There is a woman at my work who is a bit "bigger" who I think is trying to bond with me over food, which is fine. But now the things she says I'm starting to think she is like "well we're just big girls together" kind of thing. I’m freaking out because am I looked as as a “fat” person and I don't know it? Or am I completely paranoid? ____ L, let me break down my thoughts to you on this in three simple points. Full Article