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Sasha Answers: The job and my boyfriend

Sasha Posted by Sasha at November 3, 2014 18:45:58 November 3, 2014 18:45:58

Hi Sasha, There is this great company that I really want to work for.  There were two positions available and one was perfect for me and one was perfect for my boyfriend.  By the time we decided to submit applications, the one I wanted was taken.  So I helped my bf with his resume and cover letter and we submitted his application. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Missing the silly

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 28, 2014 14:45:24 October 28, 2014 14:45:24
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Hi Sasha, I have a serious boyfriend who I live with and love. We have a tonne of fun together, get along great, have great sex, our families get along, he is wonderful, caring, supportive and has his shit together financially. I think there's a good possibility we could become engaged within the next year to two years. Full Article

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Sasha Answers: My two baby daddies

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 20, 2014 16:27:34 October 20, 2014 16:27:34

Dear Sasha, I broke up with my boyfriend, C, in mid-June. After we broke up I rebounded with a guy, B. In early July I found out I was pregnant, with conception being sometime in June. B knew that the baby could belong to C.  I tried to make a relationship work with B, but the chemistry just wasn't there. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My friend’s cat stank

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 20, 2014 16:05:05 October 20, 2014 16:05:05

Dear Sasha, One of my best friends is having trouble with her other group of friends. Usually she would host pre drinks and some would crash at her place afterwards, however of late they have been choosing to drink and sleep elsewhere. I know she is a bit hurt and confused by this. I have a feeling it is because her apartment REEKS because she has a pet cat and is not very proactive about cleaning. Full Article

Sasha Answers: He owes me money and blocked me

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 14, 2014 16:19:59 October 14, 2014 16:19:59

Hi Sasha, I had been dating this guy for a few months, and it was one of those whirlwind things. I prefer to take things slowly and build them up over time, but he was super intense about it and since I’m of the idea that I shouldn’t deny myself the chance to experience things differently, I decided to give it a go. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend is ignoring me after sex

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 7, 2014 13:58:53 October 7, 2014 13:58:53

Dear Sasha, My boyfriend is 15 and I'm turning 15 in November. He’s my first boyfriend, but he’s had girlfriends before. We had sex for the first time not too long ago, and when he started, it hurt a lot and I told him to stop but he didn’t. I cried but he still didn’t stop. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Being a people-pleasing friend

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 6, 2014 16:08:44 October 6, 2014 16:08:44
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Dear Sasha, How do I stop people-pleasing when it comes to one of my good friends (who happens to be one of the least self-aware people on earth)? Let me be clear here: I'm the one who has changed (mostly). My friend and I enjoyed one of those relationships with constant texting and hanging out. Full Article

Sasha Answers: Being your friend’s life coach

Sasha Posted by Sasha at October 6, 2014 15:59:28 October 6, 2014 15:59:28
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Hi Sasha, I'm writing to you about my friend. You've heard this story before: she's pretty, smart, ambitious and could have any guy. However, the guys she picks are well, the exact opposite of her. She spent seven years in a relationship with a guy who spent all his time on his couch smoking pot, drawing heavily from the unemployment fund and bank of mom and dad. Full Article

Sasha Answers: FWB needs some tough love

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 30, 2014 20:12:57 September 30, 2014 20:12:57
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About 2 years ago, I met “Brad” at a friend’s party. We hit it off immediately and there was a definite connection. Problem was, he had a girlfriend and a long-term one at that -- 9 years. So I stepped back, said a polite goodbye at the end of the evening and left it at that. Fast forward 8 months and I bump into Brad at the mall. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My grandpa is a terrible driver

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 29, 2014 17:35:35 September 29, 2014 17:35:35

Hi Sasha My grandpa is a wonderful man, but he is in his mid 80s and drives quite recklessly. I'm so scared he will end up hurting someone and I don't know what to do because no one in my family is proactive about this. He's driven into side rails, barriers, poles, mailboxes, and my aunt's car. Full Article

Sasha Answers: My boyfriend’s controlling parents

Sasha Posted by Sasha at September 29, 2014 17:24:40 September 29, 2014 17:24:40

Hi Sasha, I’ve been in a serious relationship with T for 4 years now. Since we’re law students studying away from home, we decided to live together and adopt a dog. We have talked about marriage and we know we want to eventually walk down that road. He’s a good boyfriend. We’re not perfect, but we make it work. Full Article