Intro for May 24, 2018

Lainey Posted by Lainey at May 24, 2018 13:30:59 May 24, 2018 13:30:59

Dear Gossips,

Yesterday The New York Times published an interview with seven cast members from Arrested Development, including Jeffrey Tambor, who was accused of sexual harassment on the set of Transparent. Before that though, earlier this month, Jeffrey spoke to The Hollywood Reporter, an interview that has been widely criticised for …here, Roxane Gay said it best:

 

In the THR article, Jeffrey talks about a time when he blew up on Jessica Walter, who plays Lucille Bluth, while working on Arrested Development. This incident is addressed during the NYT discussion. Jessica says that she’s never been treated like the way Jeffrey treated her in all the years she’s been working. It is clearly still upsetting to her, even though she is willing to move on and let it go. And then what happens is that Jason Bateman takes the lead and starts to rationalise on Jeffrey’s behalf, explaining that it’s part of the “process” of being an actor, and that working together on a show like Arrested Development is a unique situation – so, basically, the acting environment is special, and because it’s so f-cking special, people get to be assholes. Jessica tries to challenge that and Alia Shawkat points out too that that’s not a reason to be such a dick to someone. But every time Jessica attempts to convey how traumatising it must have been, to be berated and humiliated by her colleague, Jason jumps in to shut her down. And so, in the end, she has to come around to his side. Because she realises she’s outnumbered. She realises that even though everyone has acknowledged that Jeffrey was clearly in the wrong, that she was innocent, she’s the one who has to swallow back her indignation, she’s the one who has to find a way to forgive him, to modify her position – and make it SMALLER – so that he can continue to occupy his. In other words, she is revictimised.  

 

Jason has since apologised for how that went down. 

 

 

 

I appreciate how specific he was in his apology. But I’m not here to compliment him on his apologising skills. What’s been done here is an example of how women can be silenced and disadvantaged, even in non-violent ways, by so-called well-meaning men. And it illuminates an entire spectrum of conditioned and institutionalised misogyny. So it’s not just the monsters that have to be handled. Sometimes it’s the “nice guys” who disappoint you the most. 

This is what Rebecca Solnit was able to get at in Men Explain Things To Me – that all of these behaviours are related because in denying a woman the ability to name her injustice and confront it, you deny her the right to life, liberty, and “the pursuit of involvement in cultural and political arenas”.. Which is exactly what happened to Jessica Walter. She tried to tell her story. She was then told how to tell her own story and how to feel about it afterwards. And when you multiply what happened to her by the number of women – all of us – who’ve experienced similar, an enormous crater begins to take shape, a hideously massive hole and inside it all the voices and the lives that have been muted. 

Click here to read the NYT piece if you haven’t already. Rebecca Solnit’s essay Men Explain Things To Me is included in her book of essays of the same name. 

Yours in gossip,

Lainey

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Cindy Ord/ Getty Images

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