I have a question that has been bothering me since your last posting. Why can"t your bed face the door? Since reading your post I"ve changed my room around so that it doesn"t face the door. I"m hoping doing this will improve my love life. :) Dear Julie: I"m far from an expert on feng shui. That"s my mother"s department. But I"ve learned a few things along the way. The foot of your bed can"t face the door because in our culture, when you"re dead and your body is lying in the coffin, they wheel you feet first out the door after the funeral. So if you"re sleeping with your feet directly towards the door, night in and night out, it"s almost inviting fate. Know what I mean?