Yes yes yes, I think I"ve finally got it after way too many hours pondering... is Sandra Bullock the Abusing the Help person? Please tell me I"m right, I don"t think I can stand it any longer!!! Dear Lise, Sorry. It"s not Sandra. While Sandra burps and farts in public, she"s reportly quite the considerate and caring lady in private. On the contrary, our Dirty Girl hides her shameful filth behind some wellschooled airs.