Since I am the Timmy you are referring to let me just clarify Rice Queen. A Rice Queen is a gay caucasian who will ONLY date Asian men. Therefore a one time crush does not quality him as a Rice Queen but more of a Dim Sum Queen, he just wants to try a little bit of Chinese! So he would not have membership into the "club". Also while my husband is Chinese, before my marriage I dated many races!!!! Not just Asian, although I am biased and Chinese are the best!!!!! Dear Timmy: Thanks for clearing that up darling. Gay lessons are always my favourite.