In person she doesn't look as... harsh. Not necessarily softer, but not quite as intense. Anyway, she showed up at the CK party last night in this dress - also better in person - but had to Mimi styles her way up the stairs. There was an attendant holding her hand. And she walked sideways on the steps so as not to flash. It still looked dangerous. Which is why I took my shoes off and went barefoot when we left seeing as I don't have my own personal balance assistant.