Jennifer Lopez is currently promoting the new season of American Idol. Here she is at the premiere party last night in Tom Ford. Now that’s a Tom Ford that looks like a Tom Ford, ahem.

Of course they’re asking her about her love life. And here’s her answer:

"I'm one of those people who does not like to be alone. I have no shame saying that at this point in my life. I think we have to own who we are."

You could say she knows who she is. JLO needs to be in love. Or she needs to think that she’s in love. JLO can’t NOT be in love. She can’t not be in love with…um…Slum Lover Bears and she can’t help but marry them. Most of the time.

Why hasn’t she married him yet?

"I don't know. We'll see. I don't know," she said when asked if she would like to get married for the fourth time. "You know, I've always believed in that institution. I believe in it, but it is difficult. I've had my challenges, but at the same time I believe in love, and I think that is the main thing."

She doesn’t know. She doesn’t know.

But that’s a good sign, non?

That’s a sign of doubt. Let that doubt get louder. Let it be the only thing she hears.