Anyway - I wanted to throw out my guess for the actress who is clinging to love. Julia Roberts and Danny Moder? Ages ago I read an ex of hers say how needy and attention-seeking she was. And I hear they"re having problems. It all seems to fit. Dear Lucy, Definitely not. Julia holds much of the power in her relationship, whereas this young one is much less self assured, no matter how many similarities there may be.