Aside from the obvious - her cool patrician looks, her flawless style, her elegance, her dignified celebrity behaviour, and the list goes on and on and on - I love Cate for the fact that she married an ordinary bloke and has stayed married to the same ordinary bloke for nearly 9 years, in spite of the fact that she could easily love "em and leave "em like my Gwyneth. And yet she has remained loyal to her man. Now let"s be honest here. Andrew Upton, while certainly not related to Donatella, is clearly no David Beckham. But Cate appears to know a good man when she sees one. Which is why I adore her to pieces. If only Nicole Kidman could share the same wisdom, we"d be all good.