Dear Sasha, I have something sort of embarrassing that I need your help with.  When I am on my period I get really horny, all I want to do is have sex with my boyfriend.  But what sucks is that he won’t go near me when I have it.  He thinks it’s gross.  I don’t think that’s fair of him but I just don’t know how to tell him.  Do you have any advice? C 


HA. HA. HA. 

I’m not laughing at you, I’m laughing at your pansy ass boyfriend.  Come on!!!!  Fine, I get that the sight of blood isn’t some hot ass turn on, but if you’re a dude and you like to f-ck chicks then you have to know that they bleed out of their vaginas once a month for about 50 years of their lives.   It’s not like we’re all really stoked about it either, but throw us a bone and get down with the program. 

C, this is obviously my take on the whole situation, but the lame reality is that there are some guys who don’t want to get down with anything that remotely looks like a wound.  And honestly, I don’t know how to convince them to think about that differently.  If your boyfriend has tried it before and he still doesn’t like it, well, that’s that. While I do think he’s being pretty sexually immature, it’s not like you can force him to have sex with you.   I mean, he is allowed to decide where he’d like to stick his dick.   Is this a deal breaker? I don’t know, I’ll let you figure that out for yourself. All I know is that trying to change his mind on this situation, is well, a bit of lost cause.

Sorry to be such a downer my fellow blood sister! xx