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I had to email to ask you about the Freebie 5. I noticed there only seems to be white men when there are a lot of attractive black actors too...is this a personal thing? Dear Anonymous: Thanks for the observation. The first love of my life was black. Dwyane. The nicest, sweetest, cutest man ever. We are still good friends. He is delightful. And single. I can hook you up if you want. Anyway, I screwed that relationship up good. They say that in relationships it"s always 50/50 but in this case, I take sole responsibility. And as such, I can"t see any other black man in quite the same positive, glowing light as my original D. I like to keep that memory in tact. He was the best. And he"ll stay that way.

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