If you’ve been visiting this site over the years, you know we’re light on Bachelor content. I think the first post we ever did about it was by Kathleen when Rachel Kathleen wrote a bit about Rachel Lindsay was confirmed as the Bachelorette. Today it was announced that the new Bachelor is Matt James, the first Black Bachelor in the shows 25th season. First of all, holy sh-t, there have been 25 seasons of The Bachelor?! And second… it took this long to have a Black Bachelor? I mean, I know, that’s the question everyone is asking. Isn’t this an embarrassment to the franchise? (Dlisted)

 

What is my advice to people in their 20s? I don’t know. I f-cked up so hard in my 20s and I feel like I would still f-ck up if I could back to that age, no matter what the advice. I’m still f-cking up now. And I meet people in their 20s and I’m like, how are you so wise? Like… Zendaya, for example. I have no f-cking business giving Zendaya advice. (Pajiba)

I DO remember that SJP dated RDJ. I know that you know what those initials are if you’re here regularly but, you never know, some people might be dipping into celebrity gossip for the first time so that would be Sarah Jessica Parker and Robert Downey Jr. Right, but did you remember that SJP also dated JFK Jr? What? I didn’t. And the FUG Girls are right about the pattern there. (Go Fug Yourself)

 

There are a lot of people who’ve wondered about Lady Antebellum’s band name. And now they’ve realised it’s not a good look so they’ve changed it with what I think is a good explanation although I am not a Black person living with the scars of the American South so if you think this is off-base, please let me know. This is a country band though and, well, there’s a segment of the country fanbase is still very pro-Antebellum so they’re getting a LOT of vitriol. Not as much as the Dixie Chicks though. Let’s not forget the stand they took all those years ago. (Cele|bitchy)

You know what my self-care is going to be this weekend? What it always is? BTS. Bang Bang Con: The Live is this weekend! I’m waking up at 430am on Sunday morning to watch! And tomorrow is BTS’s birthday! That’s enough with the exclamation points, Lainey. Here’s British Vogue on how BTS became the “undisputed kings”. PERIOD. (Vogue UK)