Katie Holmes celebrated her 42nd birthday recently with Emilio Vitolo Jr making their relationship Instagram official. She’s ending 2020 and starting 2021 with love. Here they are out for a walk the other day, now a regular New York experience. 

 

But was Emilio’s birthday post and “I Love You” the best birthday gift Katie received this year? Because Beyoncé publicly wished Katie a happy birthday on her website. 

Beyoncé's publicity team wishes Katie a Happy Birthday

This is like the supreme honours list, to know that Beyoncé thought of you on your birthday. Jake Gyllenhaal, by the way, also made the cut, as he and the Carters have been friends a long time. Katie’s connection to Beyoncé is more recent – she’s been a stan,  obviously, like the rest of us but it was at Beychella when Katie came close to the glory: 

Jamie Foxx was also performing at Coachella that year so, presumably, Katie joined him for the trip and ended up coming out of it with a more lasting – and valuable! – relationship: clearly she made a good impression on the Queen if the Queen remembered her birthday. 

 

Seeing that made me look back on Katie’s birthday ten years ago and how much has changed. Let me show you some photos from her birthday, December 18, 2010. Here she is stepping out in sweats, perhaps after a workout:

Katie Holmes seen on the streets of Manhattan on December 18, 2010 in New York City (Photo by James Devaney/WireImage)

What happens when we zoom out from that shot? Look who shows up: 

Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise on December 18, 2010
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise on the streets of Manhattan on December 18, 2010 in New York City (Photo by James Devaney/WireImage)

Katie and Tom Cruise in matching sweats!

 

That night they went out for dinner:

Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise seen arriving at Bowery Hotel on December 18, 2010
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise seen arriving at Bowery Hotel on December 18, 2010 in New York City (Photo by James Devaney/WireImage)

It would be another 18 months before she left him like a ninja, basically in the dead of the night. At the end of 2010 though, they were still holding hands awkwardly and there appeared to be no sign of trouble. 

Tom Cruise, Suri Cruise and Katie Holmes visit the Plaza Hotel on December 20, 2010
Tom Cruise, Suri Cruise and Katie Holmes visit the Plaza Hotel on December 20, 2010 in New York City (Photo by James Devaney/WireImage)
Tom Cruise, Suri Cruise and Katie Holmes visit the Plaza Hotel on December 20, 2010
Tom Cruise, Suri Cruise, and Katie Holmes enter the Plaza Hotel on December 20, 2010 in New York City (Photo by Ray Tamarra/Getty Images)
 

This moment in Gossip Nostalgia was brought to you by all the times Tom “presented” Katie. If you’re new here, it’s a thing we talked about a lot back then: every time they’d attend a red carpet situation, Tom paraded Katie around like she was a debutante – or at least it seemed that way in the photos. It was hilarious and strange and the Vanity Fair Oscar party was always a good showcase for it. This is from 2007:

Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise during 2007 Vanity Fair Oscar Party
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise during 2007 Vanity Fair Oscar Party (Photo by E. Charbonneau/WireImage)
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise during 2007 Vanity Fair Oscar Party
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise during 2007 Vanity Fair Oscar Party (Photo by George Pimentel/WireImage)

Here’s my favourite – look at his face:

Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise during 2007 Vanity Fair Oscar Party
Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes arrive for the annual Vanity Fair Party at Mortons Restaurant, Los Angeles (Photo by Yui Mok - PA Images/PA Images via Getty Images)

Speaking of Vanity Fair though, Tom and Katie attended the Vanity Fair Oscar party in February of 2012, just four months before she made her escape – and it all seemed fine!

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes attend the 2012 Vanity Fair Oscar Party at Sunset Tower on February 26, 2012
Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes attend the 2012 Vanity Fair Oscar Party at Sunset Tower on February 26, 2012 (Photo by Jon Kopaloff/FilmMagic)

There is a shot from that night though where when I look at it now with the Photo Assumption of hindsight (our favourite game of baseless conclusions), I wonder if the expression on her face, wasn’t necessarily contentment but… just you wait. 

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes arrive at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party 2012, February 26, 2012
Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes arrive at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party 2012, February 26, 2012 (Photo by Anthony Harvey/Getty Images)